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Old 05-13-2012, 04:05 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Some time ago, one of you posted here a list of the stages that those having an EA go through. It's one where they're texting and it's fairly general. They talk about their partners and don't see anything really bad but soon get on to being critical of them, etc. and it goes from there.

It was posted by one of our very regular contributors and is posted regularly when advice is being given to a BS of someone having an EM.

Can anyone dig it out for me? Thanks.
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Old 05-13-2012, 04:49 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I think you're referring to this:

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It may have gone something like this:

They first start catching up, and it's all "How you been doing? What have you been up to?"

Then it would have morphed into talk about:

What they've been doing since they parted
Their significant others since they parted
Their families
Their favorite music, movies, etc.
Their spouses
You
Your job
How your job keeps you away
How lonely she gets when you're away
How she looks forward to their conversations all the time now
How she loves talking to him
How she gets "bored" talking to you
How you don't always listen
How you're not "perfect"
How you can be so insensitive sometimes
How she wonders if she would have stayed with him
How he understands her
How he knows how to make her feel good
How you fail at this
How you are such an a**hole
How she feels young again
How she hasn't felt this happy with you in so long
How he's a better man than you'll ever be
How she wants to see him again
How they can meet under the radar
How she's thought of leaving you
How she ever could have fallen for a jerk like you
How he's her soul mate
How she made a big mistake leaving him
How she made an even bigger mistake marrying you
How they were meant to be together...

...get the picture?
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Old 05-13-2012, 05:56 AM   #3 (permalink)
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That's the one, Shamwow. Thank you so much.

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Old 05-13-2012, 06:45 AM   #4 (permalink)
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It's in the newbie thread for future reference
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