[Sara8]

Originally Posted by canttrustu

yep, got a whole year of that crap.

Got six months of an outrageous amount of texting, calling and emailing.

The stupidest thing he said, and even the counselor's mouth dropped open was:

You are my family, She is my lover, WTF

Also, when the counselor asked if he would forgive me if I cheated he instantly shouted "no way"

After hours of him lying and denying and gas lighting after I received the anonymous emails chock full of provable facts, I slapped his face when he falsely accused me of cheating.

We then got into a minor tussle. More wrestling than punching or hitting and a lot of him holding me down and pulling my arms behind my back as I flailed at him.

He's 6'3" and 220 pounds, I am 5' 4" and 106 pounds.

In the midst of this tussle he told me he was afraid of me.

He was straddling me, had my arms pinned over my head and I could not even move, and he says he's afraid of me?

Later, I had bruises everywhere. He had none anywhere. Not even a red mark on his face.

[lordmayhem]

Originally Posted by Jellybeans

This topic has been done before on TAM. I think it's "Stupid sh*t your WS said" or something.

Stupid things they say.

Stupid things they say...

Variations of this thread comes up every few months.

[mahike]

Nothing she said but she added a phone line for him on our cell plan.

[Hope1964]

Originally Posted by lamaga

Oh, Hope1964 -- the bought blowjob is bad enough, but it's so much more pathetic that he paid for it IN COINS. I am laughing, and crying a little bit. I'm so glad he's in your past!

He isn't - I am still with him

[highwood]

Great thread!

H said before I got into his secret email..that him and his OW were just friends and it was idle chit chat....

I guess her telling him that she can't wait until she can come to Canada and live with him forever was idle chitchat. As well her telling him she will love him forever.

Yes, sounds like the kind of idle chit chat I have with people at work every day! Yes, that's how I talk to guys I work with.

[Maricha75]

Originally Posted by mahike

Nothing she said but she added a phone line for him on our cell plan.

She did WHAT?!?!?!?! Oh HELL NO!!

[Hope1964]

Originally Posted by Good Dog

My wife of 10 years explaining why her EA with a co-worker is actually my fault:

"You KNEW that he's my type. You KNEW that's exactly what I want in a man! You should have EXPECTED this to happen. He's [fill in long detailed description here of why he's physically and mentally exactly what she wants and sees as ideal, totally unlike me], which you KNEW I'd be attracted to. What did you expect me to do?!?"

Keep in mind I'd never met this guy or laid eyes on him, but somehow to her mind I was supposed to have known his attractiveness would force her to do what she did, thus it was all my fault.

Wow.

[beenbetrayed]

When I first caught and confronted her, one of the first few statements she said was "why'd you have to catch me? I was gonna end it soon!" hahaha
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[Good Dog]

Originally Posted by Hope1964

Wow.

Yep. What's funny is "wow" was my exact response at the time. Just shook my head, said that and waited for it to sink in exactly how dumb her claim was. Verbally she admitted it was, but she then spent the following months doubling down on her behavior with men like him, while technically avoiding the actual OM, and blaming me for her actions.

[lordmayhem]

Originally Posted by highwood

Great thread!

H said before I got into his secret email..that him and his OW were just friends and it was idle chit chat....

I guess her telling him that she can't wait until she can come to Canada and live with him forever was idle chitchat. As well her telling him she will love him forever.

Yes, sounds like the kind of idle chit chat I have with people at work every day! Yes, that's how I talk to guys I work with.

What the....

It's either a coincidence...or you're the OMW.

My own fWW said she couldn't wait to go to Canada and live with OM forever and that she will love him forever!

[highwood]

My H's OW was filipino but working in Singapore.that's how they met. H was over there working for a Canadian company.

[Maricha75]

Originally Posted by lordmayhem

What the....

It's either a coincidence...or you're the OMW.

My own fWW said she couldn't wait to go to Canada and live with OM forever and that she will love him forever!

Ok both you AND highwood sound like you are talking about the OM from my EA... this is weird...

[Almostrecovered]

Originally Posted by Hope1964

So he picked up a hooker on his way home from a (lesbian) bar he had been at, and got a blow job for $60 that he paid for in COINS since that's all he had in his apartment.

Now THAT is one hell of a vending machine

[Remains]

1 month after DD

'you've just got to trust me now'

'I can't take this anymore'

'God, you've gotta just keep on dragging it up haven't you! It is dead and buried as far as I am concerned'

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Insane laughter follows...of course only with hindsight. Not so funny at the time.

The thing is, all I ever wanted to do was chat. I never threw it at him unless he stomped off refusing to talk. I started a 'can I talk with you please' and got that thrown at me!

Idiot!

[Hope1964]

In an even MORE bizarre twist, the fake 'models' my husband was communicating with were Filipino and wanted to come to Canada.

Cue Twilight Zone theme.