suspect my wife ... GPS recommendations?

husbandfool · 05-23-2012, 06:57 PM

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Originally Posted by lordmayhem

Ahh..the usual "my money is our money and her money is her money"
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Funny how that works!

cantthinkstraight · 05-23-2012, 11:37 PM

I went with the iTrail GPS Logger and so far,
it works perfectly. It's not a real time device, but
it maps out the driving routes taken, the speed, every
stop, etc. It's great.

It stays charged for 120 hours I believe and was $200.

Couldn't be happier.

jerry123 · 05-24-2012, 06:31 AM

The spark nano works best if you need real time. Thing is, my default was set to 5 minutes. You need to call brick house security and have them change it to 1 minute tracking.
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jerry123 · 05-29-2012, 05:33 AM

Any thing new??? Update...
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keko · 06-05-2012, 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by jerry123

Any thing new??? Update...
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bump.

jerry123 · 06-07-2012, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by keko

bump.

I know, was waiting for some news ever since he posted 2 weeks ago. Must not be good.
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jh52 · 06-07-2012, 04:51 PM

He logged in yesterday and has been posting to other threads.

husbandfool · 06-07-2012, 10:59 PM

Ugh ... quick reply. Have been busy with our counselor sessions and such. Not to mention that I have been doing max hours at work. My job has become very demanding and stressful lately, which hasn't helped things. Lots of unpaid overtime. No clear evidence yet with the GPS and VAR. The W is giving me more distance and drawing away. Not sure what is going on. She may be just punishing me emotionally or it could be an affair.

husbandfool · 06-07-2012, 11:01 PM

Sex is a memory. We have been just doing our own things, under the same roof. I may just give her the ok to see other guys. Lately, I don't care that much. I'm just fried.

keko · 06-07-2012, 11:05 PM

Anyway you can verify she is alone in that house and noone is stoping by?

Usually no sex translates into one spouse getting it from somewhere else.
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lordmayhem · 06-08-2012, 12:03 AM

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Originally Posted by keko

Anyway you can verify she is alone in that house and noone is stoping by?

Usually no sex translates into one spouse getting it from somewhere else.
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And I'm not going to post the link to that thread in the cheater forum where the cheaters are gritting their teeth when they have sex with their betrayed husband.

sirdano · 06-08-2012, 03:15 AM

This past month I told my wife I will keep working OT so you don't have to work but you got to keep me satisfied.

Let me tell you working nights 12 hours for 5 days straight with on call on days off with out sex I would not make it.

happyman64 · 06-08-2012, 05:25 AM

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Originally Posted by husbandfool

Sex is a memory. We have been just doing our own things, under the same roof. I may just give her the ok to see other guys. Lately, I don't care that much. I'm just fried.

Why make it so easy....

Just ask her if she wants out of the marriage????

Give her facts.

You might get an honest answer.....

chapparal · 06-08-2012, 06:32 AM

You really need to read up. Start with the "Married Man Sex Life" Book . There is also a blog. Also, "No More Mister Nice Guy". Your wife is/has rapidly losing respect for you.

Good luck, but YOU need to wake up. Working like a dog isn't half what it takes to keep a family a family.

Almost always the wife has beenletting you know, in her own inscrutable way, what is wrong and what she needs but you don't listen and do not get it. You think you are listening but you are missing it.

husbandfool · 06-08-2012, 11:25 AM

Hmmm ... got to get MMSL book. Thx.
We went to couples counseling last night. She claims she doesn't want divorce ... doesn't believe in it.
I don't want divorce either but, life is too short to spend it with someone if you are both miserable together. I consider that divorce is always an option. (and I told her all this)