Ugh ... quick reply. Have been busy with our counselor sessions and such. Not to mention that I have been doing max hours at work. My job has become very demanding and stressful lately, which hasn't helped things. Lots of unpaid overtime. No clear evidence yet with the GPS and VAR. The W is giving me more distance and drawing away. Not sure what is going on. She may be just punishing me emotionally or it could be an affair.
You really need to read up. Start with the "Married Man Sex Life" Book . There is also a blog. Also, "No More Mister Nice Guy". Your wife is/has rapidly losing respect for you.
Good luck, but YOU need to wake up. Working like a dog isn't half what it takes to keep a family a family.
Almost always the wife has beenletting you know, in her own inscrutable way, what is wrong and what she needs but you don't listen and do not get it. You think you are listening but you are missing it.
Hmmm ... got to get MMSL book. Thx.
We went to couples counseling last night. She claims she doesn't want divorce ... doesn't believe in it.
I don't want divorce either but, life is too short to spend it with someone if you are both miserable together. I consider that divorce is always an option. (and I told her all this)