"As a whole the people here are simply awesome. The time and effort that they put into thinking about and advising others - complete strangers at that - is phenomenal." Thats my point.
"fall into a string of failed relationships as you have."
Really?, I was talking about teenage relationships, im in a stable marriage with no fidelity concerns at all..Oh but you wouldnt know that because you dont know me do you..you just assumed, as so many do on this site.
"Trollin, Trollin, Trollin on a river" I disagreed with the majority therefore Im a troll?
"Come back when you find out that your spouse has been fooking around on you. Maybe your tune will change. Why the hell are you on an infidelity site when all you have are petty marital issues?"
I do apologise, i was under the impression this site was called talk about marriage, as per google? You see this is my point "come back when you have been fooked around on then your tune will change" Its at that point you are so so so vulnerable. Ive seen suggestions of revenge affairs, leaving spouses penniless, exposing WS to their workplace ( because they deserve to have their career screwed up dont they?..on the advise of a group of people who have heard one side of the story) its unbelievable!
Revenge affairs: I saw that only in sarcastic responses, if I am mistaken...show me.
Leaving spouses penniless....hmmm...can't recall those, but based on the people I have been in contact with, there was some underlying reason (and not bitterness) for the suggestion. Again, if I am wrong...Show me.
Hmmmm yes. Expose at work if the affair is with someone at work and there is a NO TOLERANCE policy at work. Yes, expose the affair at work. However, I did notice you didn't address the part about making the affairs uncomfortable... to expose to family. How does that make you feel?
"As a whole the people here are simply awesome. The time and effort that they put into thinking about and advising others - complete strangers at that - is phenomenal." Thats my point.
"fall into a string of failed relationships as you have."
Really?, I was talking about teenage relationships, im in a stable marriage with no fidelity concerns at all..Oh but you wouldnt know that because you dont know me do you..you just assumed, as so many do on this site.
"Trollin, Trollin, Trollin on a river" I disagreed with the majority therefore Im a troll?
"Come back when you find out that your spouse has been fooking around on you. Maybe your tune will change. Why the hell are you on an infidelity site when all you have are petty marital issues?"
I do apologise, i was under the impression this site was called talk about marriage, as per google? You see this is my point "come back when you have been fooked around on then your tune will change" Its at that point you are so so so vulnerable. Ive seen suggestions of revenge affairs, leaving spouses penniless, exposing WS to their workplace ( because they deserve to have their career screwed up dont they?..on the advise of a group of people who have heard one side of the story) its unbelievable!
Why not post your story. We would love to advise you.
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im in a stable marriage with no fidelity concerns at all..Oh but you wouldnt know that because you dont know me do you..you just assumed, as so many do on this site.
Lucky you,I hope you never have to experience it.Many here are not so lucky. If you are so stable...what prompted you to come here or I guess the question is what promted you to do the google search that brought you here? You do not need to be here.
You are bitter and I can't help but think you are leaving something out.Are you here because maybe a friend or possibly a relative is dealing with infidelity and you are looking for something?I say infidelity since you seeked the coping with infidelity thread rather than the general question thread.
Hmmm... I'm bored and don't have a life. I think I'll go visit the 'people who have been abducted by aliens' forum (even though I've never been abducted) just to stir things up.
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I don't have any infidelity issues either OP but I have gotten alot of information from this site that has helped to IMPROVE my own relationship. And yes I have been cheated on by ex's just as you have as well.. but not with the man I'm with. Even though I have suspected him of such a few times.
I havn't got a story of any interest, i really havn't, not after reading this site as much as i have.
As far as " taking what i want then leaving the rest" Ive not responded to enough to know how to use the qoute thingy with as much talent as needed to do multiples.
To the reply's that suggest i just do one, thats great! "I dont like what you are saying therefore I refuse to even contemplate the essence of it"
Can NOBODY see, that when you are hurt, betrayed, and on the floor emotionally that you will take any advise given as gospel? that "the complete 180" is what you should do totally and that these people have been through it before therefore it must be the entirely correct thing for my situation? Can nobody see that everybody is in a completly unique situation?
Can NOBODY see, that when you are hurt, betrayed, and on the floor emotionally that you will take any advise given as gospel? that "the complete 180" is what you should do totally and that these people have been through it before therefore it must be the entirely correct thing for my situation? Can nobody see that everybody is in a completly unique situation?
Yes,but each person is responsible for themselves.
They first chose to come here and lurk,then chose to post for ADVISE ,they then choose to read the posts and ultimatley they CHOOSE whether to follow any of the advise.
Its all a choice and each person has to make their own .Your choice was to come here and tell us all how bad this site is..but will not say why your so bitter and whay you originally came here.
Whats the saying "you can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink"
I havn't got a story of any interest, i really havn't, not after reading this site as much as i have.
As far as " taking what i want then leaving the rest" Ive not responded to enough to know how to use the qoute thingy with as much talent as needed to do multiples.
To the reply's that suggest i just do one, thats great! "I dont like what you are saying therefore I refuse to even contemplate the essence of it"
Can NOBODY see, that when you are hurt, betrayed, and on the floor emotionally that you will take any advise given as gospel? that "the complete 180" is what you should do totally and that these people have been through it before therefore it must be the entirely correct thing for my situation? Can nobody see that everybody is in a completly unique situation?
I havn't got a story of any interest, i really havn't, not after reading this site as much as i have.
As far as " taking what i want then leaving the rest" Ive not responded to enough to know how to use the qoute thingy with as much talent as needed to do multiples.
To the reply's that suggest i just do one, thats great! "I dont like what you are saying therefore I refuse to even contemplate the essence of it"
Can NOBODY see, that when you are hurt, betrayed, and on the floor emotionally that you will take any advise given as gospel? that "the complete 180" is what you should do totally and that these people have been through it before therefore it must be the entirely correct thing for my situation? Can nobody see that everybody is in a completly unique situation?
Alas, the information given on this site is of a general, works in most cases, variety. Like others have pointed ad nauseum, people are free to pick and choose the advice that they want.
You, on the other hand, seem to want to limit the discourse to only what appears reasonable to you.
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