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Old 05-21-2012, 08:54 PM   #91 (permalink)
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But because I have an opinion thats different to the rest, im a troll, and shouldnt be given a second thought, right?
Your OP was basically an attack on most of the people here. What do you expect when you attack people? Now you are playing the victim. Do you do this often? Create a problem and then start crying victim?

If you don't like what an individual poster posts why not respond to that poster. Then you will have an impact on the site.
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People accept different opinions here. The issues is you started out by attacking people. There are much better ways to get you ideas across.

Posts that you mention, like the one in which someone suggested a revenge affair. That person was soundly told to stop his nonsense by many members and he was banned. He very close to saying that cheaters should be executed. But here you are holding everyone responsible for something said that very sad person.

Why didn't you notice all the people telling him how he was wrong and that his harshness is not good or healthy?
I have never seen revenge affairs as being promoted on this site. If someone posted that they were either a troll or in the extreme minority.
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But because I have an opinion thats different to the rest, im a troll, and shouldnt be given a second thought, right?
You feel the need to harp on this thought. Why is that?
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It was stated that all people are unique, yet all the folks on TAM are seen by her as the same? A riddle no doubt.
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I gotta go play with my wife now.

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I have never seen revenge affairs as being promoted on this site. If someone posted that they were either a troll or in the extreme minority.
Or sarcasm. I have seen the sarcastic side of such posts. Perhaps Myown didn't recognize the sarcastic ring to the post(s)?
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Window licker? As someone spends her working life supporting and caring for and sitting with troubled, sometimes sobbing relatives of "window lickers" ! Tucking them in at night, teaching them how to cook, clean and deal with picking out there clothes..how dare you use that term so casually, you have no idea!!
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Playing the VICTIM?...eh?! Not playing the victim more like stating what is obvious!
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I have never seen revenge affairs as being promoted on this site. If someone posted that they were either a troll or in the extreme minority.
There was some guy here over the weekend who was advocating revenge affairs. His thoughts were that a betrayed spouse should never consider marital recovery until they had a revenge affair. That post caught holy hell for that and other things he said.. and he was banned. Some of his posts were deleted by the moderator as well.
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You guys,I think this bonehead is drawing everone in and enjoying it.Ignore the window licker.
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Window licker? As someone spends her working life supporting and caring for and sitting with troubled, sometimes sobbing relatives of "window lickers" ! Tucking them in at night, teaching them how to cook, clean and deal with picking out there clothes..how dare you use that term so casually, you have no idea!!
What are the odds?

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Window licker? As someone spends her working life supporting and caring for and sitting with troubled, sometimes sobbing relatives of "window lickers" ! Tucking them in at night, teaching them how to cook, clean and deal with picking out there clothes..how dare you use that term so casually, you have no idea!!
hmmm.... the fact that you would call those who are in such a state a window licker yourself speaks volumes my friend

You have shown a new side to yourself in this post...one I do not think is very becoming.

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Window licker? As someone spends her working life supporting and caring for and sitting with troubled, sometimes sobbing relatives of "window lickers" ! Tucking them in at night, teaching them how to cook, clean and deal with picking out there clothes..how dare you use that term so casually, you have no idea!!
I'll have you know! My kids are window lickers! Well, the youngest one likes to anyway. But then, he also got ahold of some warming lube and smeared it on the sliding glass door once. THAT was fun to clean off. On the plus side, no frost formed on that part of the window...It's ok, he's still young. I mean, it's not like a three year old is gonna develop a porn addiction, right?? Right???
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Playing the VICTIM?...eh?! Not playing the victim more like stating what is obvious!
So, I've tried to get you into a conversation about the things you have said but you are apparently not interested in that.

Instead you just keep repeating some version of people are picking on you because you have a different opionion. And then ignoring that point several keep making that it's about the attacking tone of your OP, not your opinion.
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Oh c mon you know what context i was using that term in. Its awful. Dont you dare try and turn my response to such a disgusting term right round on me.You will only justify it
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