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Old 05-21-2012, 09:20 PM   #121 (permalink)
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How can I get into any conversation?, by the time ive finished my reply to one person 6 others have posted! and I cant use the qoute thingy effectivley enough because ive no experience of it, and I have a cat that keeps bashing my fingers everytime I hit the speechmarks!
To quote someone's post, click the 'QUOTE' button on the bottom right of the post.

If you want to break up a post do it by using the QUOTE tags.

[ Q U O T E =Myownperson;764313]How can I get into any conversation?,[ / Q U O T E ]

[ Q U O T E =Myownperson;764313]by the time ive finished my reply to one person 6 others have posted! [ / Q U O T E ]

[ Q U O T E =Myownperson;764313]and I cant use the qoute thingy effectivley enough because ive no experience of it, and I have a cat that keeps bashing my fingers everytime I hit the speechmarks![ / Q U O T E ]

becomes.... {be sure to leave out the spaces that you see above in the word QUOTE... had to do that to get it to display so you can see what I did.}
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How can I get into any conversation?,
now you can type

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by the time ive finished my reply to one person 6 others have posted!
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and I cant use the qoute thingy effectivley enough because ive no experience of it, and I have a cat that keeps bashing my fingers everytime I hit the speechmarks!
I usually have MS Word open, copy/past the post to word. Then when I'm done writing I copy paste it to the forum window. Makes breaking up the longer posts a lot easier
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Old 05-21-2012, 09:21 PM   #123 (permalink)
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If you have someone with learning disibilities in your family, why would you even use the term "window licker" with such ease? Deep south America perhaps? yeah that figures. Check shirt and a shot gun for when a Gay comes through town.....
Really?!!!! do as I say not as I do right??!!
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Old 05-21-2012, 09:21 PM   #124 (permalink)
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And where's your heart Myown?
You came in here and attacked a lot of people who are hurting bad,real bad.Now your going to fall on you sword.
I apologized and you need to also.You might get over being cheated on 3 times,for some us us just once can take a damn lifetime
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Old 05-21-2012, 09:21 PM   #125 (permalink)
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Sarcasm seems to be prevailing here, I had a serious point.Clearly minds are just as closed as i thought they were.

So, just because people aren't seeing YOU'RE point of view.. their minds must be closed huh? So YOU'RE opinion and point of view is the only right one?

And you can come to this forum,,, being sarcastic,, yet when people are sarcastic back, that makes them bad people??
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How can I get into any conversation?, by the time ive finished my reply to one person 6 others have posted! and I cant use the qoute thingy effectivley enough because ive no experience of it, and I have a cat that keeps bashing my fingers everytime I hit the speechmarks!
Ok so I showed you how to use the quote thingy.

Now if you want to have a conversation just start having one and ignore the posts that are not part of that conversation... works quite well.
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Old 05-21-2012, 09:24 PM   #127 (permalink)
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Just twicw, and I learnt. I do apologise if more people took offence than i imagined. But I did state at the start that I wasnt directing this at most, just some... I didnt attack anyone that were hurting, I attacked those that claimed to have the solution to their problems, but in reality just had the solution to their own.
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Old 05-21-2012, 09:26 PM   #128 (permalink)
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I don't think this is a troll. I came here for support and people who understand. What I've mostly seen is people who attack, assume, and point fingers when they don't know the situation at all, plus someone who acted like they wanted to talk with me to turn around and try to get me to have cybersex with them... people like that should just be banned, that's just disgusting.

Anyway, I DID find some nice supportive people here who I like to communicate with, in the end if I find one or two people who help at all... I think it's worth shifting through the trash.
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Old 05-21-2012, 09:27 PM   #129 (permalink)
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On a side note.. thanks to all those enlightening me on the definition of window licker. (And here I thought it was similar to window shopping...)
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The fact im being called a troll, just goes to show the intolerance of any opinion different to the majority of this site..its insane.
No, I called you a troll, because that is what I call posters who only come to these forums to stir the pot. Sometimes posters from affair sites will come here and post fake stories, just to inflame. If that was not your intention then I apologize.
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[QUOTE=Myownperson;764200]Sarcasm seems to be prevailing here, I had a serious point.Clearly minds are just as closed as i thought they were.[/QUOT

I think one thing we can all agree on is that I, BigLiam, have a veritable sixth sense about infidelity, and that my advice is always the best.
So, if everyone would just listen to me(and sometime Morituri), all infidelity problems would be resolved.
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Myownperson: To quote one of my favorite French philosophers and writers, Voltaire:

"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend to the death your right to say it!"
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Old 05-21-2012, 09:32 PM   #133 (permalink)
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plus someone who acted like they wanted to talk with me to turn around and try to get me to have cybersex with them...
Wow, that is terrible.
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I don't think this is a troll. I came here for support and people who understand. What I've mostly seen is people who attack, assume, and point fingers when they don't know the situation at all, plus someone who acted like they wanted to talk with me to turn around and try to get me to have cybersex with them... people like that should just be banned, that's just disgusting.

Anyway, I DID find some nice supportive people here who I like to communicate with, in the end if I find one or two people who help at all... I think it's worth shifting through the trash.
I got someone banned for that...first day I joined, I got propositioned and I reported him and he got banned. If people are doing that, report to the mods and they will take care of it.
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I don't think this is a troll. plus someone who acted like they wanted to talk with me to turn around and try to get me to have cybersex with them... people like that should just be banned, that's just disgusting.

Anyway, I DID find some nice supportive people here who I like to communicate with, in the end if I find one or two people who help at all... I think it's worth shifting through the trash.
WHAT!!! I was never offered cybersex. JK!!

I agree,I do not think they are a troll anymore either.
But they do need to realize that they have an opinion and they are entitled to that but so is everyone else.

When I posted a problem on here I WANTED everyones advice...thats why I posted.I chose how to proceed after.
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