How do I stop my wife's affair?
Hello to all. This has been a mind opening forum for me. My question is this... Concerning the exposure of a spouse's affair, What if the spouse who is cheating, emotionally or physically, is NOT interested in reconciling? My wife hates me, has been clinically depressed even before the separation, does NOT want me anymore, and just moved out a few days ago to apartment with female coworker, even leaving our 3yr old son with me. She decided she wanted out of marriage in Feb, after just 3mths, although together for five years, citing lack of love and affection. A few days before the breakup she was in "I love you, have a good day at work" mode with me! Then on Valentines Day she dropped the bomb, even after getting me a gift. Found out last month after only being separated for 2mths that another guy is in the picture. Have text evidence of only emotional affair at least. Extensive text evidence from past two months. I love you and miss texts mostly. Not one single text or picture sent of a sexual nature. She met him out partying last year. He actually lives an hour away. I got his number and called him, he denied of course even denying he knew her, she denied too claiming he's just a friend. Am sure it has been more but do the exposure rules apply to me??? Even with her not showing the slightest bit of interest in reconciling? Will exposing her emotional affair to select upstanding friends/family be helpful in my case to disrupt her affair? Or are the exposure rules specifically for a spouse who is willing or shows signs of wanting to remain together or reconcile? Please help. Thanks!