They are that good.
My OW was telling me everything that I wanted to hear doing whatever she could to win me away from my wife.
Later I discovered that I was one of three men that she was working over to latch on to. He husband had finally had enough of her crap and left.
She was doing meth and her daughter ended up getting busted for dealing, so now I know where she was getting it. She also allowed her kids to go steal from parked cars all over our town and would drive them sometimes. This last paragraph only became known to me after I dumped her.
Your last paragraph descibed my thoughts of her exactly. But when she is with me she smokes nothing but does take prescription meds (legitimate prescribed). But she only stays for two weeks at a time at the longest and then rushes home,or whereever.
I have talked to local police about this and they are not concerned as long as I keep my house and activities clean.
I have no doubt that she would aid and abide her children in whatever criminal activity they might do.
But I cannot figure out why she would be using me. In Ohio,if you stay one night in someones house then you have established residency is what the police told me. BUT,not sure why she would need to do that unless she had made a PO box address here. She is currently hinting to me to move to another state with her other than Ohio or the state she currently lives in. Which,her rental lease runs out in a few months and she was planning on moving and according to her...to Ohio. BTW...it was her that hit on me on the dating site first and though I tried to not get involved in a long distance relationship she pursued me. I was very lonely and needy.
Is it obvious to everyone that she is a conwoman using me? If so,why can't I see it? She seems so genuine and true.
Have you done an identity search on her and her daughters? It would be worth the money to see if she has a criminal record. Other lies may turn up as well.
Have you done an identity search on her and her daughters? It would be worth the money to see if she has a criminal record. Other lies may turn up as well.
Well,I have been to her house and met her daughters and parents. I assume she is using her real name though I havn't seen her ID. She wouldn't even gave me her email address.
But I have her address and her vehicle plate number if I wanted to check that. But with the differnet illegal activities she is involved in I doubt that the house address or vehicle is even in her real name. Could be,and she could just be a small time con if that.
I havn't done a background check on her because I figured that once I contacted the police,and thay have been by here several times while her vehicle was here,that they probably did a liscence check and background check. But,who knows.
HERE IS MY REASON FOR POSTING IN THIS FORUM......
The first time she and I had intercourse,she bled alot. Or at least there was blood on me. AND...I am not a monster at all. Geesh! I know there are reasons that she may have bled that are legitimate and innocent but...my gut feeling is that she has other boyfriends,perhaps the married guy that is her neighbor and the blood was left over from a goodbye sex. She hasn't bled since that first time though we have had intercourse several times.
Besides meeting women on the internet, you can also order background checks over the internet. :-) Try that, maybe you will be able to get some facts you can rely on. But make sure you check for any aliases. You could take her photo and that of her daughters to the police department and inquire there. But only if you really want to know the answer. You sound like one of my guy friends. A real sweetheart who has gotten used and abused by a lot of women with a lot of mental problems. He thinks I'm the cat's meow likely because I feel bad when he always picks up the tab for a meal, and always fret about being on a low-dose sedative and worry about having some kind of major mental health issue. LOL.
man how old are you ?? this is my old world, and I can tell you now. YOU are being setup safe house, sugar daddy needy working stiff. Thats you. She trolls the site for guys like you. Good Lord man, she says no boy friends for a long time, comes to you when she is having a light cycle and have you thinking she a virgin. How is your credit score. You know that old saying, " one born every day ". She and her kids see you that way. So tell her you met someone and is breakin it off. Or strap in and get ready for the ride.
Well,I have been to her house and met her daughters and parents. I assume she is using her real name though I havn't seen her ID. She wouldn't even gave me her email address.
But I have her address and her vehicle plate number if I wanted to check that. But with the differnet illegal activities she is involved in I doubt that the house address or vehicle is even in her real name. Could be,and she could just be a small time con if that.
I havn't done a background check on her because I figured that once I contacted the police,and thay have been by here several times while her vehicle was here,that they probably did a liscence check and background check. But,who knows.
HERE IS MY REASON FOR POSTING IN THIS FORUM......
The first time she and I had intercourse,she bled alot. Or at least there was blood on me. AND...I am not a monster at all. Geesh! I know there are reasons that she may have bled that are legitimate and innocent but...my gut feeling is that she has other boyfriends,perhaps the married guy that is her neighbor and the blood was left over from a goodbye sex. She hasn't bled since that first time though we have had intercourse several times.
Does anyone have a link or any info about profiles or MO's of women that are scammers that might help me to learn if that is what this woman may be up to?
I guess that I have came to the conclusion that she is either a user and I may be one of many boyfriends she has or, she is setting me up for a scam to get property from me or working on a way to sue me and get money or property from me. Or,she is involved in some illegal activities that requires her to leave her state at certain times.
She is still vowing that she loves me and wants to be with me but she keeps making excuses why she can't come and be with me for awhile. I have asked her if she has an addiction she is hiding, I have asked her if she has another man,I have asked her if she is into any illegal activity and she denies all these things. But,she is making more and more excuses why she can't be here. I have no doubt that she is keeping something hid from me. It could be that she is helping her daughters hide and run from the law and she fears letting me know because I could become a possible witness in court,,,not sure.
She has left some clothing here for when she does eventually come back for awhile and she has left bottles of prescription meds here.
She is telling me that she plans to move here in three months but right now is wanting to spend less and less time here like she has established either residence or a boyfriend to be with at her convienence but right now she can only be here at certain times. And I know that she is not that busy...at least....not that busy doing the things that I have knowledge of but of course she may be doing a whole world of things that I don't know about.
Am I just being paranoid and having trust issues and she may be helping her daughters stay out of prison or is she setting me up or using me? Never even knew anyone like her family. I do believe that her love for me is real,maybe I am being foolish.
Do NOT let her use your address for any reason. If you get implicated in her drug trade, even if you've done nothing wrong, you could pay terrible penalties, including forfeiture of your property.
C'mon, Bart, were you born yesterday? Fall off the turnip truck? Just arrive off the boat? I don't usually like harsh posts, but you need a 2 x 4 big time.
Have some respect for yourself. Hang out with friends since you don't like being alone. Do not give this piece of trash a foothold in your life.
C'mon, Bart, were you born yesterday? Fall off the turnip truck? Just arrive off the boat? I don't usually like harsh posts, but you need a 2 x 4 big time.
Have some respect for yourself. Hang out with friends since you don't like being alone. Do not give this piece of trash a foothold in your life.
I am not experienced in the dating scene due to a very long marriage I was in that ended last year.
I agree with your analysis but just can't find any evidence yet that my gut feelings are true and it's not just strong suspicions that I am having. I do have feelings for her and I don't want to hurt her by making a blind decision to brake-up based only on her childrens lives.
I honestly can't see any reason why she would be using or playing me. That's why I want to find some proof that she is up to no good or I can't brake-up with her. Although she knows that I want her to be here with me right now she vows that she has to get things packed up to move and that her bills are due and her lease is still active for a few more months there.
She won't even give you her email address. How odd is that?
And she may really love you, but many women like her will really love someone else tomorrow. Look at yourself, what would attract her to a man like you. I have met men in the construction business that used to scam women/men from inside prsion. telling many men and women how much they loved them, couldn't believe how much etc. One man said he had over twenty people sending them money gifts, etc. I'll bet this is why she disappears. How do you contact her when she is gone? Do you have a landline number or just a cell?
get the online background check. Google reviews of the websites before you give them money. Look her and her phone number up on spokeo.com. If she is clean it will make you feel much better.
Don't you think that you would be better off with a woman whose motives you did not doubt? Your gut is telling you something is wrong. I don't know what she might be up to, but with so many single women in the world, why waste your time with someone whose honesty you question?
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