iheartlife

If he's young, you can tell his parents.

the guy

Step one stay quit and tell no one (go dark)

See lawyer and get options

Have your wife served at work.

Call his boss and apoligize for bring your marriage into the work place but you do not know were OM (his name) and your wife are, except for work. Let bosses know that you are sorry and hope that she can support you in the marriage.

To avoid looking like a vidictive @ss you alway tell poeple why you are calling them and "no matter what they have heard you are still married to (wife) and want ther support in the marriage..


Confusing right????? let wifr believe you are letting her go.....let others know you want to work on the marriage and want there support....get it?

cardinals_fan

I dont think so. Just a single POS

Acabado

Hear me, your wife is the most entitled beatch i've ever read about in ages, she will go ballistic on you, be ready for the angriest woman on earth.
Carry a VAR with you every where!!
Many WW like this will fabricate fake chargues for abuse.

Carry a VAR!!

cardinals_fan

I get that

jh52

I read this response from you and have a question:

"she works for his bosses wife. Thats what I thought about to be honest"

I am not sure where she works -- but do you think she is into something more than this guy. If she works for his bosses wife -- could they be all hooking up -- boss, his wife, your wife and OM ?


Just me expecting the worst out of people !!

the guy

As long as she has your last name and are legaly married...in some stated your on the hook ....TALK ABOUT IT w/LAWYER!!!!!
PLEASE PROTECT YOUR SELF AND YOUR KID/S

Sorry for shouting, but do you see how important the lwayer is.

they can protect you and your kids and your money. Especially since you abandon your family by leaving ...Einstien....

cardinals_fan

You are 100% correct. She is going to go through the roof. Its gonna hit the fan and be EXTREMELY messy. But, thats what I want.

Shaggy

Nope.

Here is what you can do. Get yourself a new dummy email account. If the place has a profile, make yourself a woman a few years younger that your wife.

Next sign up for Facebook using this account and the same girls name. Karen and Emily are good , Brit is even better. You want to blend in.If you know OMs home town make her from there, but be vague beyond that.

Next friend some people. Look forthe OM OM Facebook. Do not friend him right away. However look at his friends list and randomly friend his friends. Wait until a couple accept. During this post some posts about going out and having so much fun etc. even like people's stuff.

You are building cred. Next friend more of his friends, and even friends of his friends.

Your goal here is to eventually become his FB friend, and get the names of his friends,family,patents etc.


After a few days, of friending, idiotic posts and likes, remember to post some links to stupid videos on YouTube etc. maybe something about hot shoes .

Then friend him.
For super bonus points have the fake girl friend you wife too.

Now you are inside and can watch.

Now for real real fun, do it again with a guys account. Don't cross friend the teo accounts however.

Finally when ready, do your exposure to what you have identified as his core friends and family. For fun, block your wife from seeing your post. Use the guy account.

Leave the fake girl account quiet except for continuing the stupid posts.

Sit back and wait. They will block the guy account, thinking its you. But you already have the second fake girl account to watch it all from.
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cardinals_fan

Thats what I am thinking. I dont know what she has told them, but thats what I was thinking. Maybe they dont know she is married. Maybe she told them that I am the POS. I dont know.

iheartlife

Just be careful that you are not acting out of vindictiveness. If your goal is to save your marriage, you are not trying to destroy her. You are just trying to destroy the affair. There has to be a marriage for her to return to, if what you want to do is R.

cardinals_fan

that is what I want to try to do, R. But not right away.

jh52

When I say "hooking up" I mean she is having sex with her boss, his boss and OM -- I just want to be clear what I meant -- not that they were just enabling her affair.

the guy

You have no idea who the POS is....just some guy that your chick knows. You moved out and now POS is trying to get "some" and your kids are in the way.....do think this guy would give 2 sh!ts about pushing your kids around or out of the way to get some. Like locking them out so he can have his fun

YOU NEED TO GET BACK HOME BROTHER. again sorry for yelling!

cardinals_fan

I kinda did something like that, but more so spying . they dont post much anymore