06-01-2012, 01:30 PM
Join Date: Sep 2011
| | Re: Does my wife cheat again?
Originally Posted by Prince888
It means they have re-established email and maybe sms contact though not re-started their affair. I am afraid I have to add the word "yet" here. I don't really know how to handle this as confronting her with information means that I have to reveal I used a keylogger. Maybe I should keep an eye on her before taking any further steps. If it gets serious again, I will leave her, that's for sure.
Do not wait to gather more evidence, you know enough now to act. Ask her face to face if she is in contact with the OM. If she says no, do not tell her that you have read her emails or what you know, but tell her that you know that she is not telling the truth. Then ask her again and tell her that you need the truth this time. If she still does not admit it then there is no chance of true reconciliation and you should move on. As long as you know the truth, you do not have to prove anything to her to act. You are not in a court battle where you must prove anything to anyone else but yourself.