i have been on here reading alot lately, post about R and WS. i see alot questions ask does your WS show remorse for the A. As a BS what should i expect remorse to be.
i know with my own story my WW at first she had remorse because she got caught and i kicked her out of the house. then when i confronted the OM and forced him to show his true colors. my ww then showed remorse because the OM was such a scum bag. years later she would tell me she could not believe how stupid she acted and she was ashamed of her actions. i know we have a friend that works at the local health department, the friend tells us about all the std's that come in to that place. after the health department horror stories my wife told me she was sorry about what she had done because she could have put us a risk of a std.now as the kid get older and we are getting involved in sports and other activities, she tells me it makes her sick to know she would have given all this up to be with another person.
what does remorse look like a WS can lie and tell you 1 million times i am sorry for what they have done. when should a BS be able to say yes my WS is 100% remorseful for what they have done.
i know with my own story my WW at first she had remorse because she got caught and i kicked her out of the house. then when i confronted the OM and forced him to show his true colors. my ww then showed remorse because the OM was such a scum bag. years later she would tell me she could not believe how stupid she acted and she was ashamed of her actions. i know we have a friend that works at the local health department, the friend tells us about all the std's that come in to that place. after the health department horror stories my wife told me she was sorry about what she had done because she could have put us a risk of a std.now as the kid get older and we are getting involved in sports and other activities, she tells me it makes her sick to know she would have given all this up to be with another person.
what does remorse look like a WS can lie and tell you 1 million times i am sorry for what they have done. when should a BS be able to say yes my WS is 100% remorseful for what they have done.