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Faking remorse

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My WW appears to be very sorry for her 3 year A, but I can't help but think it's all just a big act. How hard/easy would it be for a WS to fake being remorseful? I figure not that hard since they all have mastered the art of lying. How do I know she's truly sorry? I haven't posted my whole story yet because it's still unfolding. She admitted that she had been having an A for the past 3 years but has claimed NC since March. I talked to her the other day about the NC letter I read about on this site and she refuses to write or send one to the OM. I have been keeping a close eye on her but I'm not sure she has completely cut ties with the OM, she won't tell me much about him. Should I push her for more Info?
 
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Complexity, this must be what you're referring to? This was posted June 19, so about a week ago.


I haven't gotten to that yet we are try to R, however if you feel you are unable to trust your WS no matter how transparent they are maybe a temporary seperation would help. If you find your obsessed with the past and not mentally moving forward then maybe healing would be easier if you weren't always feeling betrayed. You should be talking to an expert. Your mental health is just as important as your physical health. Hope this helps a bit.
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come on completely, you can't leave us in the dark here! Last we heard you had put a VAR under her car and blown up the fact that she "loved" her AP despite claiming to you that she wanted to reconcile and was in no contact. You were driving by the OM's house and seeing her car there!!!! And then you were going to have her served--did that ever happen?
 
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WW is a cake eater because OP busted the total false R- underground, feeding both OP and OM with the same S!it.
WHen he came here WW claimed NC for a few months already, meaning the affair had ended but he sensed the detachement, the lack of effor rather than withdrawal you'd expect after a full blowew 3 yrs LTA, he felt the ''fake remorse'', which indeed had an explanation, she never intented to stop, WW is a cake eater.
 
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