Badblood

Sorry but I think you are being gullible. Neither one of them mentioned GPD or bi-polar in their opening posts on either thread. They only add things to explain inconsistancies away.

I'mInLoveWithMyHubby

Well, gullible or not there are many people who leave valuable information out the first few posts. This is what I have observed anyways. A lot of posts start out with very little information about a subject.

Of course people lie and make up stories. I understand that, but I also understand what it's like to be told I'm not telling the truth when in fact I am. I have no reason to lie. The beauty of this forum is to have fake names to hide our identity.

Jonesey

I´m most likely get **** for this but so be it..


Then one night I walked into a bar and a guy started talking to me. He told me his ribs hurt. I told him I was a nurse and I could examine him if he wanted me to. So far so good, right? We went back to his place. Why??Just some rib problem right?Could have been checked at the bar. and after I examined him and finding a large lump on his left ribs I suggested he get it checked by a doctor.
Good. Time to leave then right? But . He looked at me and kissed me. I panicked. I didn't know what to do. Oh please
Spear me the baloney. speach. I mean working as a dominatrix, no problem right?*sigh* I asked him what are we doing?!?! Of course you would ask that…I mean all it was indented was to give a stranger a check up.You are the nurse
7years old are we? I was taken back by this, but I immediately went into work mode. What work mode?

I refused to have sex with him that night.Good nurses should not have sex with patiant´s..

However, the next time I saw him (Strange to meet the same random guy like that drunk)we were both drunk (not an excuse) and we ended up having sex. I figured he had already touched me.The excuse of the week My fate was sealed. I was officially a cheating wh*re
Sorry you was that officially the first time you went home
With guy to give him one exam. In his home.

Why to a get the feeling this guy is a client went wrong..

. I was lying to my whole family and friends. After I got over the initial shock it started to feel good and exciting. I was sneaking around like I was in high school. And with my job I was living two completely different lives. I noticed the sex wasn't as good as the sex I had with my husband.(Seriously u wana go there? I just rationalized the ok sex as he didn't know me well enough sexually. Soon I started going to see him even though I didn't want sex:You trading sex for compliments, Because you fell in “love”cuddles, and attention. I knew the relationship wasn't going anywhere and it never would go anywhere because I didn't want to leave my husband. I planned on ending the affair as soon as my husband moved in with me. Sure you did.. The relationship with my lover became crappy. He was always terrible at communicating. He wouldn't reply to texts for days and he wouldn't return my phone calls.Why keep it on with DOUCH. Trading sex for affection?
I must ask what affection´s was out of this world.That you had to resort to keep contacting a douchbag living at homeThen he didn't want me to be over at his house because his parents were getting mad. (yea I picked a winner 33 y/o and living at home still…


We started getting into fights. I notice he was becoming rougher in bed. Sex started to hurt sometimes. I started to fake orgasms. I realized we were just f#cking.Why would that matter to you? You said you only did it because of the trade of. It meant nothing to me or to himIt never ever meant anything to him.Sorry. I broke it off with him twice but I kept going back because he'd apologize. Treats u like **** and apologize, you go back? WTF.. It was at this point that I begged my husband to move to where I was. It was at this point that you finally realized ,your OM was complete loser.
No future prospects..

Where is the trading sex for attention …You was/are I LOVE


I didn't want to go to the bars because they reminded me of my ex-lover.Yepp there it is again


I can't wait to stop working as a dominatrix.Whats stoping you? It seems like you managed to have a whole lot a time with OM.And not working as much as you should have been.. I feel pain Believe that. and remorse for what I did, but my husband doesn't think I'm miserable and remorseful.

Quite frankly I cant see it either.. Here is one hint
I had deleted him from my facebook two weeks earlier after a fight.

And some more


He refused saying we couldn't afford it and he had to keep working his current job to cover bills. I felt rejected. Seriously little rejection is all it took?And you wonder why your husband dosent belive u..My secret life continued. I started seeing my husband in my mind when I was having sex with my lover. Oh please. I know that sentence was probably was meant in a very warped waycoming a cross a nice..
But seriously


After I came back to my sister's house I confronted my lover. I asked him what would possess him to text me such an explicit text at 4am when he knew I was with my husband. And he should care?? He is not married. You are He said he didn't know what he was thinking and that he was sorry. He said he was drunk. I was disgusted. I wanted to punch him. But not when the sex changed(You claim it started to hurt). The sex you traded for attention and cuddling and so on. I told him my marriage may be over.IT is OVER. I said it was just as much my fault because I forgot to delete my yahoo. Oh poor little you. How could you be so forgetful, not to delete..IMs . I mean now you have spoil it for your self. No more fun.but I should of never been with you in the first place. He apologized again. He said he knew there was nothing he could do to make it up to me. I told him we were over because if my husband catches me cheating again he will take my son and leave. Hmm interesting explanation. Not the one you would expect. I have already ruined everything already…And I might have lost my husband and family that means he world to me. I told him I loved my son and my husband more than I cared about him.The Douchbag needed to hear that from you because? He apologized but then he asked if I wanted to go back to his*SIGH*



You are so divorced if you are not starting to come clean

I being harsh yeas I know. But your story has more holes in them then the famous swiss cheese

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diwali123

This whole thing is bizarre but I don't understand how you can't handle working in a nursing home but can handle being a dominatrix. Seems like something a person with panic disorder would have a lot of trouble with.
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MattMatt

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Good people make bad decisions. Those decisions are in the past.

Today your new life starts and you can become the person you thought you were. It is a tough road of self examination and realization.
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Not if a troll has OCD

MattMatt

When I was 22 I went out with a woman who was 6 years older than me she had three children and, it transpired, she was a part time call girl. But what really put the mockers on the relationship was the fact that she was bisexual and, with genuine regret, I like to think (well, she told me she was sorry) dumped me for a woman.

I was so f***ed up and over by this that I went away and crawled into a dark hole and never even thought of dating for nearly 8 years. In the midst of all this she tried to get back together via a mutual friend, but I could not cope with the angst and drama, so declined the offer.

Now if I read that story I'd be tempted to think it was fiction. But I carried the mental scars of that relationship for years, so I know otherwise.

EleGirl

The word "passion" does not only refer to sex.

The "passion" those books help you build is the passion of being deeply in love and doing what is needed to take care of your spouses needs and to make sure your needs are met as well.

You admitted here that your wife had been telling you that here were problems from her view point for some time, but you ignored what she told you. I'm sure she was not perfect either.

The two of you could learn a lot about how to have a passionate relationship.

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MattMatt

Yes, but someone with OCD does need help. And having OCD probably precludes them from having a meaningful relationship, so this site is probably perfect, if it helps them deal with their OCD.

TRy

I called TROLL in Iowaboy’s (the alleged husband) thread titled “Dday, has arrived and stated that I had done so because of the tone of the OP and the inconsistencies of the story. I then pointed out the following.

First, the husband had time to write us post after post telling us to stay tuned, but did not have time to tell us even the most basics details of the affair.

Second, the husband told us that the wife was "sans job and doesn't help pay the bills right now", yet the wife told us "We needed money so my sister took me in as her apprentice in her business working as a dominatrix". The wife worked the paid dominatrix job for months and told us that the husband knew. See the inconsistency?

The husband stopped posting to that thread when the above was pointed out. If the alleged husband’s thread is a TROLL, then the wife’s thread is also a TROLL. Based on this and the additional inconsistencies pointed out by others, I again call TROLL!!!

MattMatt

I always says, if you think you spot a troll, ask admin. Admin usually have troll hunting tools.

keko

The administrator or a moderator can check the IP address' of both user's.

Shaggy

Could we maybe get a suspected troll button on posts that would alert admins? Maybe it would only show up if you've posted 25+ times like the private section.