06-07-2012, 04:51 PM
Join Date: Nov 2010
| | Re: unhappy wife
I still don't understand... If my wife had moved away for two MONTHS for no reason, the discussion would have gone something like "We're a married couple, right? So either we're together or we're not. Your choice, but make it soon. Like this week".
I'm not blaming you for your wife cheating. I'm not blaming you for her moving away. But I really feel that you can't fix a marriage when you're living hundreds of miles apart. Of course, you can't fix a marriage if both people aren't fully committed to it either...
So if you want to make things work, your first step will be breaking up the affair. Your case will be tough, because going dark on her won't have much effect. You can try to blow it up through exposure, but I suspect you'll get a lot of shoulder shrugging from her family like "Well, what did you expect?". Or do you think her parents/friends will put any pressure on her to straighten up?
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