06-04-2012, 09:27 PM
Join Date: Jun 2012
| | Don't know how to trust him again....:(
me and my husband met online, and we've been married for 9 months. we only knew each other for about 6 months b4 we got married, because he is in the military. well after he was done with his training, and we were already living together....i did something bad, and went through his emails. I found out back in Nov. when we were already married, he tried meeting up with a random girl from craigslist for sexual stuff. they never actually met, and theres no evidence that they did....i believe the girl became uninterested... i faced him about it. and he told me it was nothing, that he doesnt remember why he was looking online, and that nothing happened. that he was stupid...etc. so i forgave him....then later on i find evidence of him visiting more sites, and looking through posts of local girls.....casual encounters if you may call it. but physically his never shown evidence of infidelity...as far as coming home late, or not answering my calls, or smelling different, or going out randomly...etc...but for some reason i keep thinking of the time he tried meeting up a girl for sexual reason although it never happened. i am not pregnant....and i just need help learning to trust him again. I get so paranoid. i need advice. i need to get these things under control. any advice please!