06-08-2012, 12:17 PM
Join Date: Jun 2012
| | Re: Did anyone else catch their wife by sheer intuition?
Originally Posted by Badblood
What other Bs's do is their business, and I , of course, hope that AK and Working, are successful in their attempt at Reconciliation. Where I differ, is that I don't believe that true R can take place as long as BS'S delude themselves by blaming the OP, or making excuses for their WS'S behavior. Self-delusion is the worst enemy that a BS faces.
There's no delusional in what I am doing though. There's no excuse for what she did. I agree 100% with that. I can only take her for what I know her to be deep down inside, and also look at my own inside issues that may have contributed, but I by no means blame her affair on myself. These are issues she had in her head. All I am doing is giving her the opportunity to fix her choice, and if she doesn't I fix my life, move on, and enjoy what I can in life. If she makes another wrong choice that's her problem, and not mine. I won't hesitate to walk.