sleeptodream

Thanks for all of the info.
I feel like I'm in complete denial over here. I keep freaking out & then he'll be sweet as pie & I think to myself that it's not possible.
He did have a password on his phone but told me that it's because he doesn't want the kids getting in there & deleting something. Then he just recently said that he doesn't have a password on it, which I know is true because as of our last "arguement" I was able to get in just fine. But of course when I saw the text & confornted him that's when his phone has been on lock down. For a long time he would fall asleep with his phone in his pocket & not put it on the charger, but just recently he has not put his phone on the charger for over 2 weeks.
My cellphone bill won't show the imessages between their 2 iphones.
I looked again & I have windows xp. I went to the C Drive/ then documents & programs/ then there were 2 different user folders...I went into both of them & there was no such folder title application data.
I am SOO afraid he is going to catch me snooping. He definitely has a way of turning things around!

I will check out the link this weekend & hopefully will get into the back ups! Thank you everyone! I cannot thank you enough!

sleeptodream

Also, I have learned from my mistake & am NOT going to confront him until I have all of my ducks in a row. That was a terrible mistake & now he is being more "careful".

sleeptodream

How long will this take to download? And after I get the information, should I delete it from my computer? I don't want him to see what I'm doing.
Will this also track the imessages?

Caribbean Man

1]It is not ok for a husband to hide his phone from his wife and vice - versa.
Both my wife and I have iphones ,and she being the " techie " does all the installation of applications etc. I have no time nor patience with it ,neither anything to hide. I had a blackberry before , and she transferred all the info from my B.Berry to my iphone ,email addresses ,saved messages, contacts everything.
Another time I lost my phone and she actually lent me her phone for a couple of days.
That " sleeping with phone " stunt is pure rubbish.
Just sayin

2] It is not ok for a married 30+ yr old man with children to be hanging out with girls half his age at a bar / pub during " happy hours ."
I had a bad experience with that,but I will post it another time

sleeptodream

Hi Everyone!

I finally got into the iphone backup. The folder was hidden, so I figured out to unhide & there it was.
Weird question though...each file that I found was from a previous back up from my phone. I didn't see any from his phone. They seemed to be all of my text messages. How is that possible? I'm pretty sure he has ZERO idea as to where to find the backup, so I'm sure it wasn't deleted.

Thanks!

anonymouskitty

^this