Hi , so me and my wife are already 10 years together , she can be sometimes difficult to deal with cause she doesnt really know sometimes what she wants. also we are having 2 children .
I went away for 3 months for work so i gave up our apartment during that time and a friend told us there is a spare room in my other friend house where 3 male were leaving there the one is 50 the other 30 but married and the last one is single and 36 not really good looking but a very good man .
so after the months have past my wife told me that the last man who is 36 of age is very helpful to her , every time she needs help he is helping her , he even found work for her.and spending time with her and my children on the beach sometimes.
the week before I came back from those 3 months I have realised that my wife has changed towards me.then day that i have arrived home she was completely strange , didnt really wanted to hug me or give me a kiss. then i have started to suspect the worst that she was cheating on me with him.
she told me that there was nothing between them and that she only wants to be friend with him. she also told me that the day before i arrived she gave him a hug and a kiss on his cheeck.
I got angry and we had a dispute then, the next day i went to one of our friend and talked to her about it. so she talked to my wife that she shouldn't have done so the same evening we were invited by our friend for dinner . then we came back to our house and my wife received a text message saying I LOVE YOU from the 36 old fella. I got angry and went into his room to confront him , but before that when my wife read the sms message she was shocked and all her body started to shake she told me she only wants to be friend with him.
I dont really know if she had slept with him or not , she isnt in love with him, cause she has been telling me all that time that there was only a hug and a kiss on his cheek to say thank you for helping me.
Her behaviour started to be strange 1 week before I came.
could please somebody tell me if she had slept with him or not.
the week before I came back from those 3 months I have realised that my wife has changed towards me.then day that i have arrived home she was completely strange , didnt really wanted to hug me or give me a kiss. then i have started to suspect the worst that she was cheating on me with him.
she told me that there was nothing between them and that she only wants to be friend with him. she also told me that the day before i arrived she gave him a hug and a kiss on his cheeck.
I got angry and we had a dispute then, the next day i went to one of our friend and talked to her about it. so she talked to my wife that she shouldn't have done so the same evening we were invited by our friend for dinner . then we came back to our house and my wife received a text message saying I LOVE YOU from the 36 old fella. I got angry and went into his room to confront him , but before that when my wife read the sms message she was shocked and all her body started to shake she told me she only wants to be friend with him.
I dont really know if she had slept with him or not , she isnt in love with him, cause she has been telling me all that time that there was only a hug and a kiss on his cheek to say thank you for helping me.
Her behaviour started to be strange 1 week before I came.
could please somebody tell me if she had slept with him or not.
Yes, unfortunately she did. Her reaction to you coming back, her reaction to his text (discovery almost)... the writing is on the wall.
You wrote: "Hi , so me and my wife are already 10 years together , she can be sometimes difficult to deal with cause she doesnt really know sometimes what she wants. also we are having 2 children .
I went away for 3 months for work so i gave up our apartment during that time and a friend told us there is a spare room in my other friend house where 3 male were leaving there the one is 50 the other 30 but married and the last one is single and 36 not really good looking but a very good man .
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First question is -- what the hell were you thinking giving up the apartment and having her move in with 3 men in a friends place?
If she cheated it is on her -- whether it's an EA or PA. But you put her in a position that she had contact with this man for three months -- actually living with him.
You both need to see IC and work on yourselves -- then see a MC and work on your marriage.
Sorry, but a bit too quick judgment here. Men hit on women every day and they do not care if she is married or not. Women, especially if they have kids are more careful.
I'm not saying it didn't happen, but you want to read a bit more than just an sms. My wife gets these every day (and I know she's clean).
first of all i did not throw my wife out of the apartment.
the reason why i looked up for her a room is because we wanted to move abroad and i just wanted to try to set up my business.
and also my wife is very catholic she isnt into sex.
I kept her asking over and over again if they had something she replied no .
first of all i did not throw my wife out of the apartment.
the reason why i looked up for her a room is because we wanted to move abroad and i just wanted to try to set up my business.
and also my wife is very catholic she isnt into sex.
I kept her asking over and over again if they had something she replied no .
Just to let you know, it does not matter if a woman is catholic, Jehovah, Protestant, atheist. A woman living with 3 guys for a month is not good. And if your wife is healthy she IS into sex. Sorry to say, it just might be you she is not into sex with.
Oh, and cheaters are the best at telling a lie.
How many times have you had sex with her when you got back? Posted via Mobile Device
first of all i did not throw my wife out of the apartment.
the reason why i looked up for her a room is because we wanted to move abroad and i just wanted to try to set up my business.
and also my wife is very catholic she isnt into sex.
I kept her asking over and over again if they had something she replied no .
Why do you not believe her then? Is it possible that she simply considers this OM as a helpful friend and nothing more? Was it not HE who expressed "love" to your wife and not the other way around? Is it possible that his feelings of "love" was just some sort of word usage to express friendship to her, and meant nothing to her?
first of all i did not throw my wife out of the apartment.
the reason why i looked up for her a room is because we wanted to move abroad and i just wanted to try to set up my business.
and also my wife is very catholic she isnt into sex.
I kept her asking over and over again if they had something she replied no .
She isnt into sex with you. Obviously. But she is with the other man.
Of course, she kept answering no. You are not ready for the truth. When you are less emotional, you'll realize she lied.
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