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Old 06-08-2012, 04:23 PM   #1 (permalink)
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For me when I listen to "Unstoppable - Rascal Flatts" it really makes me feel better on those really bad days.

Its a beautiful song.
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Old 06-08-2012, 04:31 PM   #2 (permalink)
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'Stronger' by Kelly Clarkson
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Old 06-08-2012, 04:46 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Yes, Torn Between Two Lovers. I was in that situation with my first girlfriend (I even got the "But that doesn't mean I love you less" line spoke to me for real!)

I got back home, churned up, as you can imagine, and when I put the radio on, "Torn Between Two Lovers" came on and, because I could relate to it, being on the receiving end as it were, it gave me great comfort.

It still resonates with me now.

Bloody Heck! I just realised! That song is a Cheater's Anthem!
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'Stronger' by Kelly Clarkson


And I'll be singing the loudest when I take my kids and two of their friends to see her on August 4th.
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Seeing Things For The First Time by The Black Crowes.

I find it hard to shed a tear
You brought it all on yourself my dear
Wrong, yes I may be
Don't leave a light on for me
'Cause I ain't comin' home
It hurts me baby to be alone
Yes, it hurts me baby

A hundred years will never ease
Hearing things I won't believe
I saw it with my own two eyes
All the pain that I can't hide
And this pain starts in my heart
And this love tears us apart
You won't find me bent down on my knees
Ain't bendin' over backwards baby
Not to please

'Cause I'm seeing things for the first time
I'm seeing things for the first time, oh yeah
I'm seeing things for the first time
In my life, in my life

I used to dream
Of better days that never came
Sorry ain't nothin' to me
I'm gone and that's the way it must be
So please I've done my time
Lovin' you is such a crime
You won't fine me down on, on my knees
Won't fine me over backwards baby
Just to please

'Cause I'm seeing things for the first time
I"m seeing things for the first time
Seeing things for the first time
Oh I'm seeing things for the first time
Yeah, seeing things for the first time
I'm seeing things for the first time
Yeah, I'm seeing things for the first time
In my life, in my life
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For me when I listen to "Unstoppable - Rascal Flatts" it really makes me feel better on those really bad days.

Its a beautiful song.
Heart Attack - Trey Songz
Somebody That I Used to Know - Gotye
4am - Melanie Fiona

Those these are negative, they somehow comfort.

Bad trigger songs-
Before He Cheats - Carrie Underwood
Does He Love You - Reba
She Ain't You - Chris Brown
Unfaithful - Rihanna
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Old 06-08-2012, 05:22 PM   #7 (permalink)
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"Rolling in the Deep" by Adele doesn't make me feel better but it certainly reminds me of the situation. Yet, I still love that song because it's my revenge fantasy.

So I guess that does make me feel a little better.
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Rise Above This by Seether
I Won't Give Up by Jason Mraz
I Won't Let Go by Rascal Flatts
From This Moment On by Shania Twain and Bryan White (must be the duet!)
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John Waite - Missing You - YouTube
on the days that I have those pesky nostaglic thoughts.


stand back. stevie nicks. - YouTube


P!nk - Get The Party Started With Lyrics - YouTube

Avril Lavigne - Girlfriend (HQ) - YouTube
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This will probably be a very controversial response, but One by Metallica.
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My songs that helps me ,, is

Adele: Set fire to the rain.
Adele: Someone like you. (this helps me when I'm feeling weak)
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My songs that helps me ,, is

Adele: Set fire to the rain.
Adele: Someone like you. (this helps me when I'm feeling weak)
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Sorry for it all by dead Sara
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tom petty.... free falling
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