06-12-2012, 12:09 PM
Join Date: Mar 2011
| | Re: Cheaters never stop lying
Have you ever wondered how (incredibly) someone can believe something so absurd, they think it is real? My exH wanted my sympathy, told me he just found out he had cancer & 6 months to live, and did so with tears streaming down his face. It was all a lie but I truly think at the time he wanted me to believe his story so much that he believed his story. I know these people are described as having personality disorders but to people not accustomed to this behavior, it is so amazing how people can have this ability. From afar, it is just that....amazing. To those who are the recipients, it is hurtful, tormenting, and heartbreaking. I am sorry for your children. I know as my two endured the same. However, now they are wiser and aware that these people are around and not healthy. Be the good mom you are. Your kids will grow up knowing how much you went through and how you never stopped caring for and loving them despite his horrible ways.