I now have the choice of sending the letter to the OW fiance (unless he is former by now?) or not. I was concerned with whether she would contact hubby on his b-day or not. Nope, she chose to send him a f*cking text today, to say Happy Father's Day! He just said to me that he got a text from someone saying happy father's day, and he doesn't know who it is. I asked the number because my sister got one this morning as well...and he told me. I started shaking. What part of DO NOT CONTACT does she not f*cking understand?? Now, I did type up an exposure letter to her bf a few weeks ago, but obviously thought too much time had passed to send it to him. Now... since she seems to be testing the waters to try to get in again, should I just send it, and mention today's contact? Hubby and I have been doing well, with minor problems. I seriously am thinking of texting her myself, but I know that would be a bad idea.
What????? When was last contact??What the heck is wrong with these 'women'? I swear, the moral fiber they lack is unbelievable!!!
Absolutely tell him! I wouldnt send her a text, it might tip her off. Just let the exposure letter be a nice little surprise just like your fathers day gift from her. Good news is -HE TOLD YOU!!!!YAY!!!!!
I now have the choice of sending the letter to the OW fiance (unless he is former by now?) or not. I was concerned with whether she would contact hubby on his b-day or not. Nope, she chose to send him a f*cking text today, to say Happy Father's Day! He just said to me that he got a text from someone saying happy father's day, and he doesn't know who it is. I asked the number because my sister got one this morning as well...and he told me. I started shaking. What part of DO NOT CONTACT does she not f*cking understand?? Now, I did type up an exposure letter to her bf a few weeks ago, but obviously thought too much time had passed to send it to him. Now... since she seems to be testing the waters to try to get in again, should I just send it, and mention today's contact? Hubby and I have been doing well, with minor problems. I seriously am thinking of texting her myself, but I know that would be a bad idea.
I would text her right after you send the letter to her bf.
Last contact was March 30. Not blocked because I am illiterate regarding that stuff... it will be NOW. We deleted the number from our phones, but didn't think to block it. And dunno about blocking thru AT&T. But it's being done. My sisters have my back too.
Last contact was March 30. Not blocked because I am illiterate regarding that stuff... it will be NOW. We deleted the number from our phones, but didn't think to block it. And dunno about blocking thru AT&T. But it's being done. My sisters have my back too.
And definitely YAY on hubby's part.
So go to your phone bill online and get the number then go online and find out how to block the number or ask someone on TAM how to block on AT&T.
The next special day I am concerned about is his b-day... 2 weeks away. Father's Day completely was off my radar regarding her attempting. But yes, I will wait and text her after she is blocked on his phone and about a week after the letter goes out. Hopefully, first thing in the morning, I will be able to send.
The next special day I am concerned about is his b-day... 2 weeks away. Father's Day completely was off my radar regarding her attempting. But yes, I will wait and text her after she is blocked on his phone and about a week after the letter goes out. Hopefully, first thing in the morning, I will be able to send.
Do you know where OW's fiance' works? If you send it to her/his house if they live together she may intercept it. Be sure not to put your address on it so she wont be suspicious and open it.
Do you know where OW's fiance' works? If you send it to her/his house if they live together she may intercept it. Be sure not to put your address on it so she wont be suspicious and open it.
No clue. I know he has Facebook, but not sure if SHE set it up so she could "check up" on us or if he did it himself.
The next special day I am concerned about is his b-day... 2 weeks away. Father's Day completely was off my radar regarding her attempting. But yes, I will wait and text her after she is blocked on his phone and about a week after the letter goes out. Hopefully, first thing in the morning, I will be able to send.
I understand the birthday concern. My H's is in beginning of July so Im kind of expecting some fishing if she can find a way. BUT HA! He changed his phone number, email address, closed his fb and LinkedIn so it could be a challenge for her to reach him unless she mails something which I dont think she'll do b/c of her job but then again she's done some pretty stupid sh*t that really could/should cost her her job so i guess it could happen. Never can tell what a ho will do, huh?
I jsut walked over to him and he asked me "how are you?"...when I told him I'm ok...(I am. I have calmed down and rational. I will do what I have to do)... but when I said "I'm ok"... he hugged me really tight. He knew how it affected me, I think. I asked if he replied. He said nope, deleted it. So, a plus in that he understands. A plus that he couldn't care less what she thinks. And a plus that I am looking up how to block that b!tch!
I jsut walked over to him and he asked me "how are you?"...when I told him I'm ok...(I am. I have calmed down and rational. I will do what I have to do)... but when I said "I'm ok"... he hugged me really tight. He knew how it affected me, I think. I asked if he replied. He said nope, deleted it. So, a plus in that he understands. A plus that he couldn't care less what she thinks. And a plus that I am looking up how to block that b!tch!
Excellent!!!! He sounds like he is doing great. I think you should ask HIM to block her....See if he
will go that extra mile to move away from her.
Excellent!!!! He sounds like he is doing great. I think you should ask HIM to block her....See if he
will go that extra mile to move away from her.
I know he would, if I figure it out and if I ask him. He blocked her on Facebook. And, when he deleted her completely, he pointed out that if he didn't mean to rid himself of her, he could save her under a different name. And no, he didn't do that lol. So, yea, once it's figured out, she will be blocked.
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Un-f*cking-believable! 
