06-26-2012, 12:03 PM
Join Date: Jan 2010
| | Re: I'm missing my husbnad and him being gone has made me have flashbacks!!
Originally Posted by Bottled Up
Do you have iPhone 4's so you can do face time? That's even better than a phone call because you get to see each other as you talk.
Frequent traveling is one of the top relationship-killers, because it robs both of you the ability to closely bond in proximity. Your relationship is not going to survive the long haul UNLESS you both make meeting each other's needs a top priority.
If you need more voice interaction with your husband then he needs to do that for you. And if your husband needs sexual intimacy then you need to have iPhones with face time or skype so you can have cyber sex with each other at least.
Yes we both have iphone 4's and we use face time, but he mostly uses it for the kids and by the time they go to bed. my husband says hes going to get ready for bed. Thats the part that is really making me feel like this is anohter seperation. Hes also been very judgemental about how I raise the kids, just like when we were seperated.
I got his work schedule from his cousins wife, he works at the same facility.
I really need the talking on the phone more than facetime. I did install skype on my computer, but my husband has yet to do it.
My husband needs touch as his love language, so I'm afraid of what he might do during this time. I did express last night that I was afraid he would start a free online dating service while hes gone. He said he knew I didn't trust him.