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Well I was wrong to forgive about the ea and it ending. Found A hidden phone.

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Some of you have seen my thread about my wife caught texting with a co worker. Thought i solved the, problem. Nope, she took it under ground. They've been texting and at least making out for the last month. Don't know what to do. I'm In shock.
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I think for you to be sure you will have to see him trying to talk to her and her not wanting to talk to him,if he doesn't even approach her you might just picked wrong day when he doesn't feel like talking to her or is with another girl,or he somehow saw you.
 
#124 ·
Yea I agree. One thing im thinking with all this time to myself is.... She says that catching her and her seeing the destruction it was causing, made her instantly see him in a different light. This person who she thought was so sweet was knowingly persuing a friends wife. No sweet person does that. She says honestly the thought of, him now repulses her....


Was this change her coming out of the fog?
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#130 ·
How did she see the car if you parked it away hidden?
Maybe OM saw it or she was extra careful.

Anyway you got busted so its gonna be harder to catch them and if you never came by to just say hi she will probably think something is up,if you plan on doing this again you gotta park your car really far away.

Or you could just repark your car today and continue spying :D
 
#132 ·
Well, I moved it and got lazy and thought I parked it well, but forgot it was in line of sight to the back gate where employees take smoke breaks. So I went home, talked to her from the house to confirm in her mind I was home.heading back right now. I don't see how it'll go deeper underground when she's job hunting tomorrow. She's writing the NC letter tonight and wanted me to ask you guys how those are supposed to go. Besides the obvious, any structure to them that's standard ?
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#137 ·
No contact letter - I like this:

Date

Other Man First Name Last Name:

I am horribly ashamed of my behavior. I feel terrible for risking losing my marriage and husband, who I love more than anything in the world. Do not ever attempt to contact me again in any way, shape, or form other than strictly for business. If you ever try to contact me again other than strictly for business, I will file harassment charges against you both with human resources and the police.

Signed,

Wife First Name Last Name
 
#142 ·
I'm At a loss.... Once home, I tried to have my wife read the thread for new membersi thought it had a lot of great information on how to start the rebuilding process. All she did was huff and puff and act like I was torturing her. Once I got her to sit down with me and read it, she, only could complain there were too many acronyms and it was stupid. I just said fine f it , walked outside and posted this. Does She really not care....
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#147 ·


Why do many of the newly betrayed think that by bringing their unremorseful WS here to read the stories and links that will suddenly snap them out of the fog?

The only thing it accomplishes is that it ruins your safe place to vent AND allows them to take the affair farther underground because we post advice about investigation techniques here.

Look LOSTfan, you can't make her remorseful. You can't make her come out of the fog. She has to want to save the marriage.
 
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