Re: Ex Wife is critically ill, don't know what to do
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Originally Posted by J Valley
My ex FIL just called........she's gone. She slipped away peacefully a few moments ago. I will always love her, no matter what....I am just too distraught at the moment.
I wish I had something to say to make you feel better. But be glad that you made the trip.
Re: Ex Wife is critically ill, don't know what to do
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Originally Posted by J Valley
My ex FIL just called........she's gone. She slipped away peacefully a few moments ago. I will always love her, no matter what....I am just too distraught at the moment.
My sincere condolences to you, JValley. I am so happy, as I know you are, that you got to see her. And I know that to you, it is truly like losing a wife, even if you were divorced. But by your eloquent description, I have the distinct impression that there was definitely a "oneness" between the two of you as evidenced by you being there for her in her waning hours of this earthly life. Unlike the medical professionals, I firmly believe that she knew of your presence and that she absolutely loved having you there with her. Through those of us who greatly advocated for you to go see her one last time, God definitely sent you as a messenger of love to let her know that all was well with you and with her~ and that being understood, she was ready to move on to greater and heavenly things!
But always remember her for the good that she brought you and that you brought to her. Cry over those cherished memories of your love together, but smile and laugh about the happy times that you two shared as a united couple. And thank God for having made her a part of your life!
In the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, may our Lord and Saviour offer His comfort and solace to you and to the rest of her family at this most difficult time! Rest assured that you have many TAM shoulders here to offer you the support that you need!
Re: Ex Wife is critically ill, don't know what to do
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Originally Posted by J Valley
My ex FIL just called........she's gone. She slipped away peacefully a few moments ago. I will always love her, no matter what....I am just too distraught at the moment.
J,
My condolences on the passing of your exwife. You clearly loved her very much.
And as much as she hurt you at least she was truthful.
You showed many of us these past few days how much stronger our love can be for those that have hurt us instead of letting our hate for those same people rule our lives.
I truly believe you will see her again in the next life.
Now make her proud of the courage you displayed this past weekend and live your life to the fullest!!!
Re: Ex Wife is critically ill, don't know what to do
Wow, I am speechless, and in tears. I couldnt stop crying throughout your entire post and bawled my eyes out even more when I read she passed. My deepest, deepest condolences to you. You are the true meaning of a man. And I wish you nothing but the best in getting on and moving forward with your life. All the best.
Re: Ex Wife is critically ill, don't know what to do
JV-------my sympathies---to you, and her family
She heard you, no matter what the dr. said---she knew------and I believe, she will be waiting for you, when you pass on, many years from now
She may have fallen for someone else, while married to you---but she treated you respectfully, and asked for a D., so you could both move on----you were hurt, but it is obvious you never stopped loving her, and she very likely cared for you, maybe even loved you, in her own way
You are a better person, for going and saying goodbye, to the woman you did love for many years.
Re: Ex Wife is critically ill, don't know what to do
we believe that if a person desperately want to meet some one, they wont die until they see or hear from that person, If they die before meeting that person we believe that the person died leaving their last wish unfulfilled. Here she may have been waiting for you, when you show up and heard from you which may have been her last wish, (even if she didnt told to someone else) You fulfilled her last wish, you can be proud of that,
Re: Ex Wife is critically ill, don't know what to do
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Originally Posted by Kallan Pavithran
we believe that if a person desperately want to meet some one, they wont die until they see or hear from that person, If they die before meeting that person we believe that the person died leaving their last wish unfulfilled. Here she may have been waiting for you, when you show up and heard from you which may have been her last wish, (even if she didnt told to someone else) You fulfilled her last wish, you can be proud of that,
Re: Ex Wife is critically ill, don't know what to do
J Valley,
I'd never have the guts to take step as you did.After reading your first post I thought you should phuck it and continue with your life but after reading every 1's comments I must say it changed my opinion.
She did do right by you after all there is no such thing in life as a easy break-up.
You did what you thought was best for you and kept u r self aloof for 3 years to maintain your sanity and pick up the pieces of your life and to show such compassion after 3 years and most importantly to phuck the comments discouraging you to go and follow your heart .
When my wife was in the hospital I didn't visit her although we promised to be for one another for all our seven lives .What you did as an ex-husband I failed to do as a husband.
Well dude it takes a real gent to come up with such strength.
I feel small compared to the enormity of your heart.But now it's time to make new memories my friend.
You never described how her life turned after the divorce .Did you get the closure you were looking for ????
Re: Ex Wife is critically ill, don't know what to do
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Originally Posted by GTA06
J Valley,
I'd never have the guts to take step as you did.After reading your first post I thought you should phuck it and continue with your life but after reading every 1's comments I must say it changed my opinion.
She did do right by you after all there is no such thing in life as a easy break-up.
You did what you thought was best for you and kept u r self aloof for 3 years to maintain your sanity and pick up the pieces of your life and to show such compassion after 3 years and most importantly to phuck the comments discouraging you to go and follow your heart .
When my wife was in the hospital I didn't visit her although we promised to be for one another for all our seven lives .What you did as an ex-husband I failed to do as a husband.
Well dude it takes a real gent to come up with such strength.
I feel small compared to the enormity of your heart.But now it's time to make new memories my friend.
You never described how her life turned after the divorce .Did you get the closure you were looking for ????
Wishing you luck
GTA06
GTA:
You're not small in any way, brother! Like all of the rest of us, you're just in a lifelong learning mode. I know that I am.
Absolutely great words of encouragement for JValley from you!
May God bless!
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