Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Indiana,near Chicago
Re: My husband says he doesn't love me anymore.
This is so wrong.A man who goes out and has an affair is no leader at all,especially a spiritual one.
He's putting the blame on you and saying you need to recover?? No,no,no....Yes its 50/50 of the problems in marriage but the affair is all on him.
I was raised a Southern Baptist under strict rules
and cheating on youre spouse is a huge no,no.
I'm into 4 1/2 months of R now after my wifes affair,it isnt easy but she is accepting all the blame for what she did and tells me how sorry she is every day.Dont let your husband play the victim card.Mind games? Oh yeah, he's trying to turn it around on you,dont let him.
I'm very sorry this is happening to you.You will find many good people here with a ton of good advice to help you.You dont deserve this.
I wish you well.Hang on and dont give up.The people here helped me and what they did was incredible.
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