07-02-2012, 09:53 PM
Join Date: Sep 2011
| | Re: How do you get over being lied to?
Originally Posted by 827Aug
It's going to be up to him to rebuild the trust. No more lies or deception--full transparency. Over time you will regain trust and be able to move past this bump in the road. My estranged husband lied (and cheated). That began in 2006. I still can't get past it because he is still lying to me. We live our separate lives, but sometimes we must interact with each other (children, bankruptcy, taxes, etc.). It's really hard not knowing what is the truth!
I'm in this situation. I'm positive WS is still lying to me, it's been nine months since d-day and I can't heal cause I'm stuck on wanting to know the truth. He just doesn't get it, I can't move forward in this place he's put me in. Totally unfair.