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VAR's etc

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First let me thank all of the regular posters for their wisdom. I have been reading and learning quite a bit and am posting for a little more detailed advice about VAR's, keyloggers, etc.

Background: My husband had a 6 mo PA with a woman from his office. He concealed it using a few burner emails and our home phone (while deleting call history on the handset). Just had DD#2 last week after 8 months of false R. He is with a new company and is saying and doing all of the right things after I took off my wedding ring and told him I am seeing a D attorney. We have 2 kids, and despite the betrayals, am thinking about a possible rebuild of our 20 yr marriage. We have been in MC these past 8 months of false R.

In the meantime, I am going to install a VAR in his car. He has given me the password to his work cell, but can't he just delete the call and browser history? I am not sure I could install cellphone spyware for his work phone or a keylogger for his work laptop. Should I even bother with those if I put a VAR in his car?

Thanks for your thoughts. Hate to be a part of this club...
 
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