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Old 07-18-2012, 12:23 PM   #91 (permalink)
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why use a program when you can spend hours delving through directories and codes?
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Along the lines of this thread I have yet another IT question. My wife had an iphone 4gs, now she has a Nokia 900. We use AT&T. With the iphone whenever she would use the phone to be on the internet it showed on the bill as "NET media" and gave a kb sent figure. Now that she has moved to the Nokia 900 is shows "pta" whenever she uses the internet, or so I think.

Here's the scenario, I watch the phone bill constantly, as well as log times I see her on the internet. When she checks Facebook or the weather, there never seems to be any kb traffic for the times I have recorded. Here's the question, every night at exactly 11:25 the bill shows her phone using internet to the tune of 6k-12k kb's. It's every night, same time stamp, never changes. There is no waking up in the middle of the night to check the phone showing, I am watching the phone sitting on the end table in plain sight so I know it's not her on the internet. So what is it? AT&T is only able to tell me that the phone is connected to the internet. I have not confronted her with it yet, because I don't now anything, but does that sound familiar to anyone?

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I am assuming I guess that Facebook and Weather channel apps don't use internet? Because during the times I record she is on the internet the bill never shows any usage, but every night at 11:25 it shows internet usage. Could it be the phone running an auto updater or something along those lines?
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Along the lines of this thread I have yet another IT question. My wife had an iphone 4gs, now she has a Nokia 900. We use AT&T. With the iphone whenever she would use the phone to be on the internet it showed on the bill as "NET media" and gave a kb sent figure. Now that she has moved to the Nokia 900 is shows "pta" whenever she uses the internet, or so I think.

Here's the scenario, I watch the phone bill constantly, as well as log times I see her on the internet. When she checks Facebook or the weather, there never seems to be any kb traffic for the times I have recorded. Here's the question, every night at exactly 11:25 the bill shows her phone using internet to the tune of 6k-12k kb's. It's every night, same time stamp, never changes. There is no waking up in the middle of the night to check the phone showing, I am watching the phone sitting on the end table in plain sight so I know it's not her on the internet. So what is it? AT&T is only able to tell me that the phone is connected to the internet. I have not confronted her with it yet, because I don't now anything, but does that sound familiar to anyone?

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I've read in AT&T forums that they do this for ease of billing. They just show the days usage on a data dump at a certain time. It would be difficult to show each and every time they accessed the internet, the phone logs would be too huge.

FWIW, when my wife was using her Blackberry, it would do the same thing, show usage early in the morning or around that time. Coincidentally, that was around the time that she would call OM in the morning. For a minute I thought she was breaking NC.
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I am getting confused by all this tech talk.

One question -

Can I access emails on Outlook on a laptop that were sent in November 2010? They were deleted at the time. Can I retrive them in any way?

My husband is very tech savy, so I would have to hide this totally.
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Same trigger for me, she would always wait up until after I had gone to bed to make contact. OM is two hours behind us in time zones, so she would be up late to have time with him. The only question I have on that is though a few weeks back there was data usage showing several times through out the day at a lower kb used, say around 2.6k kb, spaced a few hours apart. So it doesn't seem consistent at all.
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Along the lines of this thread I have yet another IT question. My wife had an iphone 4gs, now she has a Nokia 900. We use AT&T. With the iphone whenever she would use the phone to be on the internet it showed on the bill as "NET media" and gave a kb sent figure. Now that she has moved to the Nokia 900 is shows "pta" whenever she uses the internet, or so I think.

Here's the scenario, I watch the phone bill constantly, as well as log times I see her on the internet. When she checks Facebook or the weather, there never seems to be any kb traffic for the times I have recorded. Here's the question, every night at exactly 11:25 the bill shows her phone using internet to the tune of 6k-12k kb's. It's every night, same time stamp, never changes. There is no waking up in the middle of the night to check the phone showing, I am watching the phone sitting on the end table in plain sight so I know it's not her on the internet. So what is it? AT&T is only able to tell me that the phone is connected to the internet. I have not confronted her with it yet, because I don't now anything, but does that sound familiar to anyone?

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Same time every night that sounds like a program update. You will need to install a spy program on the iphone. But the nokia is easier to spy on.

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I have not used the program myself. So I cannot vouch for it but will get you the text chat logs that you are looking for.
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I am getting confused by all this tech talk.

One question -

Can I access emails on Outlook on a laptop that were sent in November 2010? They were deleted at the time. Can I retrive them in any way?

My husband is very tech savy, so I would have to hide this totally.
I know it sounds confusing and feel free to ask away. If you feel uncomfortable asking in the thread pm me and I will explain there as well.

The answer to the question is a possible yes. It depends on if your husband actually clears his deleted items folder. Also it depends on if he archives old messages.

To keep it discreet go get a usb tumb drive from walmart. Then go you your H computer. Make sure outlook is closed.

click on my computer. in the address bar type this in for:
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c:\users\(enter H user profile name here)\appdata\local\microsoft\outlook\

(win xp)
c:\documents and settings\(enter H user profile here)\local settings\application data\microsoft\outlook\

Once you get there you need to find and copy all the files there onto your thumb drive.

Then take those files to a new computer that has outlook and import them into outlook on the other computer. Import all the files you get in there. Once you do you will be able to go through all the mail that he has on his computer for as long as he had outlook. If he deletes emails but doesn't clear his deleted items folder you will have him. Also check the sent mail folder lots of people forget to clear that folder out as well.

If you have any further question feel free to ask. Also if you get stuck at some point get a crossloops account (google it) . I will remote to your computer and walk you through some of the steps. If you can at least get the files off of your H laptop. you can take a computer to a computer shop or geek squad and they will import it for you.
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Same trigger for me, she would always wait up until after I had gone to bed to make contact. OM is two hours behind us in time zones, so she would be up late to have time with him. The only question I have on that is though a few weeks back there was data usage showing several times through out the day at a lower kb used, say around 2.6k kb, spaced a few hours apart. So it doesn't seem consistent at all.
that is a small file size think text or skype.
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I am assuming I guess that Facebook and Weather channel apps don't use internet? Because during the times I record she is on the internet the bill never shows any usage, but every night at 11:25 it shows internet usage. Could it be the phone running an auto updater or something along those lines?
Fb and weather channel both use data. Most don't update until you start the app. Unless she access the app and leaves it running all day.
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How about finding out the password to a yahoo email account.. I have the email address but that is it.. And NO the computer I have access to is not the the computer ever used to access the email account.
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How about finding out the password to a yahoo email account.. I have the email address but that is it.. And NO the computer I have access to is not the the computer ever used to access the email account.
Only 2 options is to get his computer and see if he was dumb enough to store his login information.

Second option is to attempt to reset the password. Find out the secret questions. When you know them ask him the same or similar question and see if he is dumb enough to tell you.

option 3 is to see if he has a fall back email account where an email reset message is sent to. See if you can access that one.

Once you reset the password then find what you're looking for. Send a message to all of his contacts about how they have won ten million us dollars from the bank of nigeria.
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