Isn't it HER house? And while he pays the bills, the house has her name on the title? So he can't exactly kick her out, right?
Can't weight for the next installment...
I assume that he gets his mail there and that it's the family residence.. so it's his home as well. Neither of them have the right to kick the other out.
The question is which will chase the other out first.. and we have our answer. She used irrational threats to chase him out... to save himself from false accussations.
So I walk into the house and he's sitting on couch watching tv and she was in the kitchen witn the kids. As soon as a walk in he says "there's the man of the hour". I ignored him and went into the kitchen w her and the kids. I notice the dog didn't have any water in his bowl so I calmly ask her why the dog dosent have any water. Especially on a hot day like this. She tells me that the kids keep knocking over the bowl and she's sick of cleaning it up off of the floor. She says she decided she will just give the dog water once a day. I told her that's the most stupid and inhumane thing I have ever heard in my life. She says if u are coming over here just to start a fight then I should leave. I told her that I'm not trying to argue w her but I don't want the dog to dehydrate. Its 90 degrees n outside. She storms out of the kitchen and I hear her in the other room talking to james. I stay in the kitchen w the kids and fill up the dogs water bowl and of course he drinks every drop. My son asks me to go out for ice cream, so I figure that actually is a good idea to get out and away from these to losers. As I'm walking out the door james says to me " you are walking on thin ice buddy". I ask him what that supposed to mean and he says "oh you will figure it out". I ask him was he threating me and he says "I warned you already, now keep it up". At this point he realizes that I'm not intimidated by him anymore. So I leave the house and actually I felt really good because I stood up for myself. So the kids and I go out for ice cream and then we stop at a local park to hang out a bit. Like an hour later I get a call from her asking where I am and that I need to bring the kids home because they need a bath. I told her I will bathe them myself, no worries. So apparently james takes the phone from her and starts yelling and cursing at me telling me that I'm an idiot etc and I better come home right now or he will come out and find me himself. That really pissed me off because how the hell is this guy gonna tell me what I can do with MY kids. I told him to go to hell and hung up on him. He calls right back still cursing at me and then he says " I have yet to kill a man on U.S. soil but there's a first time for everything. I hung up again and went to the police station to file a police report. The cops were really nice and asked me do I have any proof of his assault on me the other day. I showed them my chipped tooth and how loose my other teeth are. They said they will definately question him. I then explained to them that they need to have someone escort me to the house to take the kids. They said they already dispatched an officer there and I could go home. When I got back to the house there was a few cop cars there but his truck was gone. When I went inside there were 3 cops inside talking to my wife. One of the officers explained to me that james had left before they arrived but they caught up with him a few minutes later and he was pulled over and questioned. I ask was he arrested and he said no. So whatever I figured that now that law enforcement knows the deal he would be shaking in his boots and he would stay away. I leave the house and go back to my sisters house where I have been staying. As I pull into the driveway I get a phone call fropm a number that I don't recognize. When I answer, the person on the other line says: BOOM! At this point I just figure that its a prank so I hang up. The number calls right back and I answer and its james. He says:" see just like that it would have been over. One shot one kill". Then he starts telling me that he's looking right at me and it takes him less than a second to squeeze the trigger. I tell him if he's looking right at me, what I'm I doing right now? He basically explained exactly where I was standing and he described the layout of my sisters front yard. I look around but I couldn't see him. So I tell him if he's gonna shoot me then just get it over with, but if he were to shoot me it would be noisy and everyone would see that he did it. He then starts laughing and tells me that there are "ways around that". I ask him why is he doing this. He then just hangs up on me. I get back in the my vehicle and speed off as fast as I can. I didn't see any headlights behind me so it felt better. I really didn't want this drama going on at my sisters house and at this point I was more concerned for her safety than mine. I was debating whether if calling the cops would help or hurt the situation. I drove to the nearest police station and just sat in my car. I really was in a daze. My head was spinning. A few minutes later I get a call from him and he says "well aren't you gonna go inside to report me"? Then he starts laughing and says I wouldn't even make it to the front door. I'm like wtf? Does this guy have a GPS on my car??? I ask him what the fvck does he want from me and he just says. "Truce". Keep your mouth shut and leave her alone" I say fine you can have her I don't want her, I only wanna see my kids. He says ok from now on when you come over don't say 1 word to her and she won't say one word to you". I agree. Then he says ok. He hangs up. I sit there for like 30 minutes and I leave. I have not slept one minute since. I have ripped my car apart trying to find a GPS tracker but I can't find it. I truley cannot function right now. Please just bear with me. I can't take this anymore. Posted via Mobile Device
What kind of phone do you have? You can buy phone apps that record conversations. Buy one and install it. If you don't have an iphone or an android get one so you can record his threats.
Then once you can do this... do something to get him to call you back. Get the recording and go to the police. You are giving into this guy way too easy.
Does your wife know that he is making these threats? She and your children are in danger. this guy is mentally off.
Does anyone know how to wiretap a cell phone? Posted via Mobile Device
There are apps you can buy for recording cell phone conversations.
My son's now ex wife tired to have him killed in earlier this year. She still calls him and threatens him. She even admits that she had her bother try to shoot my son.
so i've been trying to get him to put the app on his cell phone. He thinks that she'll leave him alone now 'cause the divorce was final last week and she's living with a knows heroin distributor who wants her all to himself.. so she's to busy to worry about killing my son, her now ex.
Jason is her husband so I would think he has more right to be in the home than the OM. The OM is probably reading all of this thread too since he seems to know every move Jason is making. This is the most disturbing creapiest story I ever seen on here. Posted via Mobile Device
Can someone please tell me the easiest way I can fire this lawyer and get a full refund???? Posted via Mobile Device
You can fire an attorney at any time for any reason. You should do it in writing. You are entitled to any part of your retainer back that the attorney didn't actually do work on your case.
Before you fire him, interview a few attornies and see how they would handle the situation. If they all say the same thing he does... then don't fire him.
Your attorney has a very valid point. You are stirring things up and it can back fire. So you have to be very careful here.
The fact that he isn't helpmg you get the RO against a man that has assaulted you and nw has threatened to kill you says it all.
I don't think that the OP has any hard evidence that the OM has assaulted him or threatened to kill him.
I believe this is a large part of the attorney's point. And to get that evidence the OP keeps putting himself in situations that could back fire on him.
ohh yeah won't hurt to try and get CPS involved, good idea..you'd think if the police knew he called you like that knowing where you are that they will investigate and get more involved..freaky that he called and aked if you are gonna go in..but why didn't you?
People seem to have an unrealist view of what the police and courts can do.
There is no proof that the OM threatened to kill him, followed him or anything else. It's Jason's word against the OM's.
My son's wife had her brother try to kill my son. The first time the brother shot at my son was in the TArget parking lot. About a hour later they drove by my house and took a couple of shots at him on our property in one of the horse fields.
Five police officers were in out driveway and witnessed the shooting at our property. So they chased the car down and arrested the occupants. But there was a big problem... no gun. The brother knows this area very well and so he diched the gun.. probably threw it into one of the acres and acres of fields around here.
The police searched the road side where the brother shot into the horse field. They could not find any brass or shell casings.
So they cannot prosecute the brother and son's ex-wife who was driving because there is evidence... there is no gun.
A person cannot get a RO either without some proof, other than their own words, that the other person is harassing them or a danger to them.
Oh, and from now on, hold your damned VAR in YOUR HAND whenever you are around either one of them. Don't be sneaking it into the vicinity like a scared little 6th grader. Hold it out and make it CLEAR you will be recording everything they do.
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So they cannot prosecute the brother and son's ex-wife who was driving because there is evidence... there is no gun.
If you have police officers as witness and they see and pursue them, apprehend them and can't do nothing because there is no way to find the gun... Your legal system is just not working. Had no idea it was that bad...
ok I'll say this and drop it. I have had tails on me at NIGHT that hung back while I was driving in neighborhoods an I95. dark cars are hard to see even when they pass under street lights when they are 2 to 3 blocks back. I know what you are saying an you could be right. I was just giving examples of things I KNOW !! subject DROPPED.
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