Well I would suggest stop paying her bills chances are ur going to loose custody anyway. At least if they want to be together they will have to pay there way and you can move onvwith some money. Make sure u save some in case they hit u with bacj support and also if thers is no custody in place grab ur kids cause they wont force u to vive them back until custody is established don't need them around that house. Posted via Mobile Device
Might have been a different story had you listened to everyone here and reported it to the police. I used to work for police (in Canada so different laws), but it's a fine line between someone with a grudge trying to cause grief and someone in fear of their life. Someone in fear would have reported the incident to police and request emergency hearing for sole custody of children.
You never talk about your kids. It's all about you. You never answered how you can leave them around this wing nut. You're concerned about being alpha and that your wife looked at you like WOW when you didn't cower.
Why are your kids still there? Posted via Mobile Device
Listen, I feel in my gut that this is real..scary ye but real and I have been praying for Jason and his kids..Calling him a troll is not helping, if that's what you think then why come back? Posted via Mobile Device
I cannot imagine what is going through his head, the way the OM taunts him is scaring the crap outa him and so he may not be thinking clearly Posted via Mobile Device
Jason don't let your ego dictate your course of action. Go to your brother and the two of you brainstorm ideas until the two of you find one that is legal and can get rid of the OM for good. Seeking help from those closest to you is not a sign of weakness but of strength.
**** this state and the laws of this state. Guess since I'm not a WOMAN I have to show ****ing books and books of documents before they can great me a restraining order. ****ing woman judge won't sign the ****ing order because he dosent have a criminal background and apparently him calling me FOUR TIMES in only 30 minutes is not stalking. I wasted another goddamn day dealing with this **** and this incompetent justice system. If I were a woman that ******* would be UNDER the jail by now. I'm leaving this ****ing state. I'm not going to live my life looking over my shoulder anymore. If its one thing that I have learned in this experience is that while being a "beta" male may get you cheated on, being an "alpha" male gets you **** on by the legal system. I'm done with this ****. Take care guys. I really learned a lot and I appreciate the advice. I have my conceal weapons permit so I can defend myself if need be.
You are seriously mistaking if you think that a woman can walk into court and get a restraining order without any proof of anything. You are trying to accuse someone of a very serious crime. You had better have proof.
Since you have no proof you just look like a husband who is upset that his wife has left him for someone else and YOU are going after the OM.
You have no proof except that he called you 4 times in half an hour. The judge is right, that is not stalking.
Right now it's his word against yours. How can a judge possibly know if you are lying or not? Get real.
Your attorney tried to tell you that you have nothing at this stage. But you insisted so he took your money to do your bidding. He knew going in there that you would not get that restraining order. I believe he even told you that he doubted you could get it at this time.+
Now have you taken the very good advice given here to get either a device to record phone calls or a phone app to record calls. You need real evidence, not word of mouth.
I cannot imagine what is going through his head, the way the OM taunts him is scaring the crap outa him and so he may not be thinking clearly Posted via Mobile Device
I agree. I have chills reading this. But 'poor Jason' isn't going to cut it. He has 2 children in a very vulnerable position with a crazy man. He needs to quit worrying about anything other than protecting them and himself. Posted via Mobile Device
Well I would suggest stop paying her bills chances are ur going to loose custody anyway. At least if they want to be together they will have to pay there way and you can move onvwith some money. Make sure u save some in case they hit u with bacj support and also if thers is no custody in place grab ur kids cause they wont force u to vive them back until custody is established don't need them around that house.
Please don't do this.. rile him up with things that are not true.
He most likely will not lose custody unless he does something really stupid. All states want both parents to be active in their children's lives. There are two kinds of custody legal and physical. He will almost 100% sure get 50% legal custody. With physcial custody one of them will be names custodian but it's highly likely that the can get 50/50 custody each.
His attorney gave him advice about paying the bills. He needs to follow his attorney's advice.
I agree. I have chills reading this. But 'poor Jason' isn't going to cut it. He has 2 children in a very vulnerable position with a crazy man. He needs to quit worrying about anything other than protecting them and himself.
Jason has a real problem here with the kids because he has allowed the OM to stay at his house and Jason moved out. So now it's harder for Jason to get the OM away from his kids.
With no evidence that the OM is a danger, Jason can look very unreasonable going over to the house, getting the children and removing them. If he does not let the kids return to the house with their SAHM he will look like he's withholding the children from their mother. It will not look good in court.
Jason has a real problem here with the kids because he has allowed the OM to stay at his house and Jason moved out. So now it's harder for Jason to get the OM away from his kids.
With no evidence that the OM is a danger, Jason can look very unreasonable going over to the house, getting the children and removing them. If he does not let the kids return to the house with their SAHM he will look like he's withholding the children from their mother. It will not look good in court.
It's lose/lose because allowing it to become status quo doesn't look so good either. The night he was followed he should have reported to police and got CPS involved to get children out. Actually after ice cream, he should have started the ball rolling with CPS and not returned the kids with their aid. Posted via Mobile Device
It's lose/lose because allowing it to become status quo doesn't look so good either. The night he was followed he should have reported to police and got CPS involved to get children out. Actually after ice cream, he should have started the ball rolling with CPS and not returned the kids with their aid. Posted via Mobile Device
It is a tough situation, but it's still an issue of proof. He has none.
Whether he involves the police, or CPS, or his lawyer, or the neighborhood watch, it still requires proof. It's just his word against two others. And the courts are biased toward wives in cases of divorce and accusations of domestic violence.
At this point, he should follow his lawyer's advice.
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