I'm not worried about her dad. He's harmless. He has a big mouth and that's about it. The guy she's sleeping with is on my radar just because of his violent tendacies. I'm thinking about putting cameras in the house and go over there while he is there and make him hit me on camera so I can get him arrested. Posted via Mobile Device
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Thanks for the encouragement guys. I have the lawyer finalized now. These last 24 hours have been a whirlwind. The lawyer advised me that I should keep paying the bills because it helps my custody case. He dosent want me looking like a deadbeat. He also told me I may be able to sue the OM for when he attacked me. One of my front teeth was kinda chipped and two of my teeth are kinda loose now. I can sue him for my dental bills. It really dosent matter because my insurance covers most of it but still I want to damage his wallet as much as possible. He told me that its a long shot because we have no witness other than my wife. But if I can get him on tape admitting to it ill be ok. The war has begun!! Posted via Mobile Device
Will you stop entertaining this asshat!!!!! did you talk to the lawyer about the RO? probably not. Hell, you tried to bring it up with the witch and what did she do? OH YEAH!!! She tried to have you thrown in jail! Did you bring up about possibly suing the gym that employ's this douche bag for sleep with married clients and hopefully getting this d-bag fired? NOPE!!! Suing him for the dental bills where the only witness is the witch? Oh yeah, I see her rolling on Price Charming.
Dude, you haven't started a war, you full of delusions! MAKE THEIR LIVES UNCOMFORTABLE!!!! Always have a VAR on you at all times when and IF you decide to start making stuff hard on them.
Will you stop entertaining this asshat!!!!! did you talk to the lawyer about the RO? probably not. Hell, you tried to bring it up with the witch and what did she do? OH YEAH!!! She tried to have you thrown in jail! Did you bring up about possibly suing the gym that employ's this douche bag for sleep with married clients and hopefully getting this d-bag fired? NOPE!!! Suing him for the dental bills where the only witness is the witch? Oh yeah, I see her rolling on Price Charming.
Dude, you haven't started a war, you full of delusions! MAKE THEIR LIVES UNCOMFORTABLE!!!! Always have a VAR on you at all times when and IF you decide to start making stuff hard on them.
I fear he's trying to win her back. And the bad thing is, until he goes scorched earth and pulls out the nuclear options on her azz, he doesn't have a snowball's chance in hell of doing so.
Personally, from the sounds of things, there would be no way I'd take her back even if she came crawling through broken glass and razor wire to get to me. I'd put a hurin' on them both the likes they'd not seen before. All of this macho crap on the part of the guy, and all of this evilness on the part of the wife? I'd make it my life's mission until the divorce was finalized to make their lives hell. And when the jocker dumps her for the easier table scraps he can pick up, I'd keep right on walking from her.
Jason, dude, you may not be "alpha" and you may not be a fighter. That's fine. But, and this is a big BUT, until you find self respect and get it back, there is no woman worth a DAMN that will want anything to do with you. It is the worst of "doormat" behavior. And doormats do not attract good women. Doormats attract dirt (as you're discovering now). It took a few years for her true nature to surface, but it has. And that's what you need to understand...this is her TRUE NATURE. A woman getting caught up in and having a fling does not do these things to their children's father. Period. Calling the cops on you when you've done nothing wrong and making false reports. Sleeping with another man in your house. Throwing you out of "her" house (WTF ever happened to marital property?) And this is just the start. You mark my words, this "woman" (and that term is used VERY loosely) will next do her damndest to use your children against you and make your life a living hell. Count on it. The claims of abuse of the children WILL come. The claims of you being an unfit father WILL come. The demanding of supervised visitation and outrageous child support and alimony WILL come from this one.
But back to the self respect issue....I'd personally not sacrafice my self respect over taking an azz beating, but that's me. Like I said, I may lose (and have done so before), but the "winner" will know he was in a fight. That goes for literally and figuratively.
This dude is a putz. If I've got the right one, he trains law enforcement and military in hand to hand and unarmed defense? And blackwater dudes as well? Yet he has a need to hold a job as a physical trainer?!!! Law enforcement have their own trainers...they do not hire outside to do so. Same with military. I've been in both fields. Not ONCE has a source outside of the unit or department EVER been contracted to train someone within. Not once. Unless it was a certified peace officer from an another jurisdiction. They're going to hire a "fitness trainer"? Again, I'm ROFLMAO at that one.
Let me clear his story up for you....he is possibly ex military. Probably didn't do chit in the military. Failed at his attempts of becoming a Ranger, Seal, Special Forces, or whatever bullchit he's trying to sell your wife who doesn't know any better. And then he got out and tried to become a cop. And he failed at that. And now this loser "Bally's fitness coach" is running around, proclaiming his "badd assness" to every frustrated, loose legged housewife or girl he can find, not caring that none of it is true, because he doesn't care if he is found out...he's not in it for the long haul.
My god...let her have her dream and then sit back with a beer and watch the flames when this fantasy all comes crashing down on her. Enjoy the show.
This dude is a putz. If I've got the right one, he trains law enforcement and military in hand to hand and unarmed defense? And blackwater dudes as well? Yet he has a need to hold a job as a physical trainer?!!! Law enforcement have their own trainers...they do not hire outside to do so. Same with military. I've been in both fields. Not ONCE has a source outside of the unit or department EVER been contracted to train someone within. Not once. Unless it was a certified peace officer from an another jurisdiction. They're going to hire a "fitness trainer"? Again, I'm ROFLMAO at that one.
Let me clear his story up for you....he is possibly ex military. Probably didn't do chit in the military. Failed at his attempts of becoming a Ranger, Seal, Special Forces, or whatever bullchit he's trying to sell your wife who doesn't know any better. And then he got out and tried to become a cop. And he failed at that. And now this loser "Bally's fitness coach" is running around, proclaiming his "badd assness" to every frustrated, loose legged housewife or girl he can find, not caring that none of it is true, because he doesn't care if he is found out...he's not in it for the long haul.
My god...let her have her dream and then sit back with a beer and watch the flames when this fantasy all comes crashing down on her. Enjoy the show.
LEAs and the military have their own trainers. They DO NOT contract out for this training. One of the guys I went to the NCO Academy with was a SERE instructor out of McChord, and the instructors teaching ground fighting when I went thru the academy were active duty officers. Thats what I didn't believe about this story in the first place.
My cousin was married to a SERE instructor at McChord for 10 years. I can vouch for what lordmayhem posted. All of those guys are internal, no contractors.
He was rather humble too... all of the guys like this I've ever met don't brag.
Will you stop entertaining this asshat!!!!! did you talk to the lawyer about the RO? probably not. Hell, you tried to bring it up with the witch and what did she do? OH YEAH!!! She tried to have you thrown in jail! Did you bring up about possibly suing the gym that employ's this douche bag for sleep with married clients and hopefully getting this d-bag fired? NOPE!!! Suing him for the dental bills where the only witness is the witch? Oh yeah, I see her rolling on Price Charming.
Dude, you haven't started a war, you full of delusions! MAKE THEIR LIVES UNCOMFORTABLE!!!! Always have a VAR on you at all times when and IF you decide to start making stuff hard on them.
So, in your opinion, Jason should ignore the advice of his lawyer, who works in the area and understands the tendencies of the judges who will be hearing the divorce case, in favor of trying to get some revenge of his stbx and her boyfriend?
I'll just say that I disagree. Given the choice between seeing his kids more often and creating some minor mischief (which is all he would be legally able to do) for the other parties, I think Jason is better off trying to see his kids more often.
Sure, he should keep the VAR on him. Other than that, let his lawyer be the jerk. That's what they get paid for. And it's legal.
So, in your opinion, Jason should ignore the advice of his lawyer, who works in the area and understands the tendencies of the judges who will be hearing the divorce case, in favor of trying to get some revenge of his stbx and her boyfriend?
I'll just say that I disagree. Given the choice between seeing his kids more often and creating some minor mischief (which is all he would be legally able to do) for the other parties, I think Jason is better off trying to see his kids more often.
Sure, he should keep the VAR on him. Other than that, let his lawyer be the jerk. That's what they get paid for. And it's legal.
I agree. Jason is best listening to his lawyer at this point. He needs to remain as squeaky clean as possible, in order to highlight his wife's bad behaviour, and give her absolutely no ammunition to play with when she realizes how badly wrong things have gone for her.
Jason, as hard as it is you *have* to take emotion out of this...think of it as a business contract gone bad that needs to be nullified. Do what is in YOUR children's best interest.
Guys just because I lost one fight does not mean that I'm not "alpha enough" I am an intelligent man with goals, morals, and self control. IMO that's pretty "alpha". Could you picture our world leaders running around fighting all the time? No. But they seem pretty alpha to me. I have been doing my homework and contacted the gym he works at and talked to the REAL owner. Come to find out this guy dosent even own the gym he just has a small partership in it. Anyway the owner was really nice about it but he brought up a good point. This guy dosent even train the women. They have a female who does the womans courses. So apparently she would wait for her class to be over and hang out with this guy afterwards. Anyway I asked the owner not to say anything to him yet because I want to get my ducks lined up first. He agreed and told me if I need anything else to let him know and good luck. I did mention that he theatened me, and I asked the gym owner should I be concerned. He said that james is a gun fanatic but wouldn't risk his freedom over something that silly. So I then tried the security contractor that he supposedly works for but the guy was an ahole and hung up on me. I got another VAR and when I stopped over to see the kids last night I put it in a safe place in the living room. I then went into my wifes room with another var in my pocket and asked her how could she hate me so much that she allowed a psycho to attack me in my own home. She says "what are you talking about, I practically saved your life" ! Little does she know that she just gave me the evidence I needed to go to the police. I think I'm gonna wait and get her to make a few more incriminating statements before I go to the cops. I want it to be an open and shut case. I'm not rushing into anything. I'm gonna make sure that the charges stick. Posted via Mobile Device
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Law enforcement have their own trainers...they do not hire outside to do so. Same with military. I've been in both fields. Not ONCE has a source outside of the unit or department EVER been contracted to train someone within. Not once. Unless it was a certified peace officer from an another jurisdiction. They're going to hire a "fitness trainer"? Again, I'm ROFLMAO at that one.
