07-21-2012, 03:41 PM
Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Henniker, the only one on Earth
| | Re: Do you ever feel like no matter what you're screwed?
It's your time to be selfish. Your spouse should understand given the situation that you need to take care of yourself. Stick with your program of me me me me me. Honestly, if you're codependent you really can think me me me me me and you'll still be considerate of others, the difference is you will be responsible for yourself which is honestly how all human beings should be, even wives (and husbands) and friends and lovers and moms and dads and kids. Your own two feet need to be under you, if they don't feel like they are there, do some dancing and get them back under your center. Keep them there, then you can dance well (metaphorically) with others.