Like bandito mentioned, stay 2 steps a head of her, and the best way to stay ten steps ahead of her is to stay dark.
Why risk letting your emotions get the best of you...she will push your buttons and who knows what information or tactic you have that could be released during a heatted conversation you have with her.
So, less contact, less chance of letting some info slip when it comes to your game plan. Hold your cards close and stay away from STBXW.
Ya, thats the plan now.. I am actually very careful when it comes to "slipping"... Very careful... But as of now, I will be in MI by the weekend, my stuff in the apartment will be in storage, and she will be getting tsunamied for the next week. Once this investigation starts, and I get to MI and expose it to everyone there... ALL of her family is there, so they will ALL be hearing from me.. On top of that, she will find out that I am in MI with our son... And this whole time, I will be like a ninja.. I will be in the shadows.. I will be dark.. I seem to have been in a great mood these last few days if you cant tell..
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Ya, thats the plan now.. I am actually very careful when it comes to "slipping"... Very careful... But as of now, I will be in MI by the weekend, my stuff in the apartment will be in storage, and she will be getting tsunamied for the next week. Once this investigation starts, and I get to MI and expose it to everyone there... ALL of her family is there, so they will ALL be hearing from me.. On top of that, she will find out that I am in MI with our son... And this whole time, I will be like a ninja.. I will be in the shadows.. I will be dark.. I seem to have been in a great mood these last few days if you cant tell..
Oh, I think we know you are in a good mood. Now that you've become a member of the league of shadows, try not to avoid taking any roller coaster rides on the emotional train, you'll have ups and downs, stay strong, find some stability with a job if you can, or study, I know you mentioned you would do that. Rare to have smart OP's
Ya, I try to keep it out of my head, but it sneaks in there on occasion, and I get angry... But it doesnt stay long... My inner ninja kicks in and my medulla oblongata karate chops all the negativity out of my head! But yes, I have some things that I can do in the meantime to keep my mind occupied. Cant really get a job now, but in the future, once I get back from MI, I am planning on going to an Auto Tech school in FL... As far as the emotions go, I dont think the mind movies will ever go away, but I will do what I can to limit them.. Oh, and luckily I got my smarts from my dad...
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"Confront them with annihilation, and they will then survive; plunge them into a deadly situation, and they will then live. When people fall into danger, they are then able to strive for victory"
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"Confront them with annihilation, and they will then survive; plunge them into a deadly situation, and they will then live. When people fall into danger, they are then able to strive for victory"
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"Confront them with annihilation, and they will then survive; plunge them into a deadly situation, and they will then live. When people fall into danger, they are then able to strive for victory"
She may not have custody. But she can sure as hell keep you from leaving the state with your son. Which will pin you down. If I may make a suggestion. Go from MI to Fl directly. Then leave your son in Fl and go back to TX without telling her to empty the storage unit. She has to believe that you are gone for good. Let her think you are still in Fl. Once you leave Texas with your boy, DO NOT GO BACK WITH HIM. You leaving without telling her will give her a heads up, so when you come back she can have you served so you can't take your son out state.
She may not have custody. But she can sure as hell keep you from leaving the state with your son. Which will pin you down. If I may make a suggestion. Go from MI to Fl directly. Then leave your son in Fl and go back to TX without telling her to empty the storage unit. She has to believe that you are gone for good. Let her think you are still in Fl. Once you leave Texas with your boy, DO NOT GO BACK WITH HIM. You leaving without telling her will give her a heads up, so when you come back she can have you served so you can't take your son out state.
Yes, you make a very good point... But I already thought of that.. lol.. I am going to leave my son in MI with my parents when I go back to TX.. They already arranged for it.. So once I leave MI, I will come back to TX for just enough time to pack up(3days-week), then rent a UHAUL, and go to FL.. Once I get to FL, I will fly back to MI and pick my son up, then fly back to FL... I have no plans on coming back to TX.. Hell, I may even file for divorce(fault) in FL after I have been there 6 months.. Make it that much harder for her, because she will be at another duty station for more training, and not in TX.. Thanks for the advice!! On another note, I went a somewhat of an emotional roller coaster ride yesterday.. Basically went from happy, and in a good mood.. To thinking about her again.. This time I didnt get angry.. I got upset and depressed.. Just the thought that I wasted the last 7-8 years of my life with this woman.. Why would she have that little respect for me and our son, after everything we have done and been through, and throw it all away in a matter of 4 hours.. But I am doing a better today.. Havent thought about it much, and I have been busy packing stuff up to take it to storage. So that is kind of keeping me occupied.. Guess you could say Im in a good mood..
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Oh, and the storage unit is for me.. I am putting all the valuble things in the house in it.. Because once she finds out Im gone, she will be at the apartment trying to destroy, or take everything.. So I am doing that for my safety.. She will have no idea where the stuff is at, or how to get to it.. I am not emptying the apartment, just the important stuff...
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She can go to a judge and can make you bring the boy back until custody is settled. Judges don't like this move and it will come up again during settlement/cusdtody. Be prepared!
Her being military can work against her getting primary custody due to her being transient but she will be kicked out or at least denied re-enlistment so she may resurface.
Ya, and I have checked with her commander, and with legal, and there is nothing wrong with what I'm doing.. I am simply going to visit my family.. Posted via Mobile Device
She can go to a judge and can make you bring the boy back until custody is settled. Judges don't like this move and it will come up again during settlement/cusdtody. Be prepared!
Her being military can work against her getting primary custody due to her being transient but she will be kicked out or at least denied re-enlistment so she may resurface.
She took the only means of transportation and refused to allow him to even use it to go buy food for himself and the child. Basically told him to take a bus when he asked about it.
He is going to his family so he can get some support and help for himself and his child.
No judge is going to make him return to a place where he has no support and no transportation. Nothing illegal about visiting his family while she is living in the barracks on base.
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