08-02-2012, 06:03 AM
Join Date: Jan 2012
| | Re: I had an online affair .
Originally Posted by Wazza
Or you leave her in spite of all the things that attracted you to her, find someone else, and then realise....."There's no reason why this one couldn't betray me just like the last one did".
No, that warm feeling of total trust is gone forever, no matter what you do. Best to accept that since otherwise you could make some bad choices trying to reclaim it.
I still think it's an open question and hard to find the "right " answer.
I have thought hundreds of times myself, that leaving her wouldn't guarantee me from being hurt by another (new) partner.
But we could at least start with pure white sheets. Then again, there might be other flaws to find then...