08-01-2012, 03:18 AM
Join Date: Jan 2012
| | Re: Silly Mistake - Need advice.
I would have written a longer reply but Elegirl has said it all for me so no need now. However, I will add thoughts and confirm...
He is cheating/has cheated. (read up on 'some of the stupidest things Waywards say', there are threads on here, or just Google it. What he said to you is classic. And there is no doubt at all that he cheated, his reply confirms it)
I put on pretty much every text I send Xxx. He is projecting. Going way over the top. The reasons for this is nothing to do with you or anything you have done. It is all to do with him and what he has done, and he is projecting.
He sounds like a manipulator. Read up on ways that people manipulate. Having experienced 2, one after the other, I am now skilled at spotting it. But I am now 38. It is a cruel thing to be manipulated, and they don't care how they do it. They do their best to make all problems land at your door, all in your head. Make you think you are going crazy, are crazy. Literally. Watch out!