Re: Has she cheated or not?
Ok, the cold hard truth. You are hubby, security, future. In other words, the PAYCHECK. YES she was doing him in the bathroom while you was gone. In your home. Friends ?? Read bff thread of wifey and BEST friend, he just confirmed. Read is my wife cheating, by another BS, scumbag om sounds like your friend, chubby and got nothing going on. She know there is no future with them, but like the thrill of cheating. So she do it with scum she won't be leaving her security for.
BUT, why do you keep giving this woman the power to play you ?? Are you so desparate you can't find a better woman ??
You ae young enough to start over with the real thing, once you dump this serial cheater. And make no mistake, she is just that.
You may even get her to stop, but once the kids come, sooner or later she will cheat again. So you will be back here again.
So here is what you do. 1. Don't confront again. Get the VARS and catch her. 2. Expose her to everyone near and far. 3.Try to act as if you still have no inkling she is cheating, then bring her world crashing down.
I TRULY hope you are not so caught up in this fantasy life you want with her, that you are took weak to accept this and take her back.
At your age, you got your whole life ahead of you. Don't waste it trying to fix the unfixable,,, HER.