08-03-2012, 12:49 PM
Join Date: Sep 2011
| | 11 months POST DDAY!!!!
Ok..so some of you might remember my story..some might not. Here's a little summary:
My husband is Active Duty Marines. He went to Japan for duty..ALONE without me and the kids. He cheats ( claims it was a kiss) And the female cries fowl so her name wouldn't be tarnished. After 7 months of a LONG awaited trial, my husband being viewed and shamed as if he was a rapist, the time finally came in April. After 5 days of Trial..it took the Jury ONE hour to deliberate..Not Guilty. Her lies were so prominent, and they knew she was full of SO much crap...that they dismissed his "Attempt to fraternize" charge. SO after 7 months of nervousness and aggravation and hurt..it is ALL finally over. But its been almost 4 months and we are trying SO hard to work on our marriage.
It SICKENS me how someone could do something like that to another person. Especially seeing how there was an entire family involved. Unfortunately they will NOT be trying her on her 12..yes 12 COUNTS of perjury..because they dont want actual victims to be afraid of coming forward.
So the financial and emotional whirlwind of trial has been over. But I am STILL on edge and am hesitant with our future. The end of this month will be ONE year that he has stopped drinking. He is showing how hard he is trying to be a better man..but its hard for me to let go of the past.
Any advice or insight on how I could possibly move forward would be appreciated. We are going to start counseling, hopefully next week.