Found out he has a secret phone

bronwen · 08-05-2012, 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by MattMatt

Yes, but she told him that they were only jokes and comments of very questionable taste to all the men in the office. That she was, of course, being competently faithful to her husband. No, sorry, to her lovers. Oops! Did she accidentally use the plural? Of course, she meant that she was only his little cheatiepoos.

My God! Did your husband really buy that load of old tripe? He really must be in the fog of infidelity!

At the moment I'd like to beat the c**p out of him or have her husband to do it. youn can't go around stealing other men's wives and keep you looks

EleGirl · 08-05-2012, 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by bronwen

I have read on here about affairs and condom use or lack of it = (I hate this subject but needs must)

The norm seems to be no condoms and if this is true in my husband's case I have just realised she's going to be really, really sorry she started this!!!!

Why will she be sorry?

MattMatt · 08-05-2012, 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by bronwen

I have read on here about affairs and condom use or lack of it = (I hate this subject but needs must)

The norm seems to be no condoms and if this is true in my husband's case I have just realised she's going to be really, really sorry she started this!!!!

Oh. Oh... dear!

Why? (Don't say if you don't want to. I do not want to pry.)

MattMatt · 08-05-2012, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by bronwen

At the moment I'd like to beat the c**p out of him or have her husband to do it. youn can't go around stealing other men's wives and keep you looks

Violence doesn't solve anything. Well, it does, but it shouldn't be required, as people, ideally, should not cheat.

MattMatt · 08-05-2012, 09:57 AM

Bronwen, is there something her husband needs to be warned about that might impinge on his health?

bronwen · 08-05-2012, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by MattMatt

Oh. Oh... dear!

Why? (Don't say if you don't want to. I do not want to pry.)

The gift that keeps on giving from previous life

Bronwen

bronwen · 08-05-2012, 10:01 AM

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Originally Posted by MattMatt

Bronwen, is there something her husband needs to be warned about that might impinge on his health?

More on hers

bronwen · 08-05-2012, 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by EleGirl

Why will she be sorry?

Sent you pm

Bronwen

bronwen · 08-05-2012, 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by EleGirl

Please explain

I thought I had sent you a pm I'm not very good at this

Would you mind checking if it has arrived

Thanks

EleGirl · 08-05-2012, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by bronwen

I thought I had sent you a pm I'm not very good at this

Would you mind checking if it has arrived

Thanks

Yes I answered

MattMatt · 08-05-2012, 10:41 AM

Just answered your PM. It could be both. It would certainly impact on any future relationships of her husband, if he kicks her out and tries to remarry.

What a stinking, dirty mess your idiot husband has created.

bronwen · 08-05-2012, 10:48 AM

[QUOTE=MattMatt;963417]Just answered your PM. It could be both. It would certainly impact on any future relationships of her husband, if he kicks her out and tries to remarry.

What a stinking, dirty mess your idiot husband has created.[/QUOTE

When I described his behaviour to the therapist I was seeing the first word she said was NARCISSIST and the second word was RUN!

Remains · 08-05-2012, 08:05 PM

Keylogger! He obviously used the computer to enter the numbers, as u found it there. Keyloggr will find the passwords.

Runs like Dog · 08-05-2012, 08:30 PM

I'd just point out there are 4G burner smartphones. You don't need a computer for the most part.

Hope1964 · 08-06-2012, 02:34 PM

Hi Bronwen, I am so sorry to see this latest development.

From what I can see you have basically two choices - you can either use what knowledge you have, even though you have no proof, and kick him out. If he refuses to leave, you could. Or, you can continue to wait and let your PI do his job. Have you told the PI about the phone?

You also need to do everything you can to reduce your stress level. You are seeing a therapist so that's good. Have you considered short term use of something to calm yourself? Are you eating?

I am also wondering why she will be sorry?