Wife of 35 Years Has a Wild Fling

MattMatt · 08-07-2012, 01:14 AM

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Originally Posted by hollowman

Thank you all so much for your great answers. Right now we are separated and all family members know what happened. There is one more issue I did not post before;

20 years ago I had a fling and she forgave me for it until now as far as I know. I have never forgiven myself but she managed to do so. We have had a great life together until now.

I feel like I owe her the same treatment back now.

Thank you all for your help.

Yes. From my personal perspective, you could well be right. You should allow her the same opportunity that you had, now. However, what she does with that opportunity is up to her.

costa200 · 08-07-2012, 03:45 AM

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Originally Posted by spudster

I'm not impressed with 5String or Costa. Costa you have never been cheated on. Banjoman, your track record with relationships is as dirty as it gets. Both of you need to back off of the guy.
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Since i'm not here to impress you (who are you anyway?) i'm just going to ignore you. I haven't said anything i would not say to a true friend. Believe me when i say that i don't need to have been cheated on to have the all the patterns plenty of times and all around me.