08-07-2012, 01:14 AM
Join Date: May 2012
| | Re: Wife of 35 Years Has a Wild Fling
Originally Posted by hollowman
Thank you all so much for your great answers. Right now we are separated and all family members know what happened. There is one more issue I did not post before;
20 years ago I had a fling and she forgave me for it until now as far as I know. I have never forgiven myself but she managed to do so. We have had a great life together until now.
I feel like I owe her the same treatment back now.
Thank you all for your help.
Yes. From my personal perspective, you could well be right. You should allow her the same opportunity that you had, now. However, what she does with that opportunity is up to her.