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Old 08-08-2012, 11:06 AM   #1 (permalink)
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So I decided to stay with my boyfriend (now my husband) after found out many different things while I was pregnant. The first thing that happened was he kept on talking to his ex, went to see his daughter and he lied and told me he stayed with family. Come to find out he stayed with his baby momma. Then I looked at his email. And found that he was replying to ads off of Craigslist. Telling women what he would do to them. Sexual ways. And on top of that still talking to his ex behind my back, sending emails so I couldn't find out and pictures back and forth. Then in December after all this I went through our phone bill and found a number that I haven't seen before. There was picture messages and text messages and also phone calls to the number. I called it it was a female. She didn't know that we were together, she had no idea that I was pregnant. She told me that they were seeing each other in the mornings when he was supposed to be at work. She knew that he was in the military and other things about him. He said she was lying. He didn't know her. Its been about six months now. And i still can't let it go. He won't admit it to me and i know that he did. i think of he were to just be honest it would make things better. But he won't. I don't know what to do. Please help. Do i stay or go?
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He's a habitual liar.
Shows you no respect.
OW tells you they are sleeping together yet he denies.

Seriously, why put yourself through more heartache. I'm sorry this guy isn't working out for you but your obviously not his first priority. Make yourself and your child your own first priority and leave him behind. Apparently he's already done this to one other person. After you leave him he will do it to someone else.
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