Yes, those same phrases are used whether EA or PA. I used some of them, myself, in my EAs. The most prevalent in mine was "he's just a friend, don't worry." But he was more than that. Same with my husband's EA. Posted via Mobile Device
Even the you just pushed me over the edge line?
And the whole touching thing? Posted via Mobile Device
she said "Im done, leave!" "I dont have even have any feelings for you anymore" "I love you but not romantically", I asked her for her phone and she wouldn't give it to me, I asked knowingly at that point "theres another guy?"
I asked her if I could sit down and she said "yes but dont touch me" which confused me and so I tried to touch her and she kinda freak out,
she kept saying "Leave!" "Im done" "get out!", so far she is not with that other guy(he was married and told her that his wife cheated on him).
It is just bothering me cause I would rather just know the truth of whether she cheated or not
she said "I promised God id never have anything to do with you again, and im not about to break that promise", I asked why she would do something like that and she said "Cause! Im done! Get out! Leave!"
Despite her repeated requests, you go to her house, you ask her for her phone, you ask her all sorts of questions and you try to touch her repeatedly.
What part of "Leave me Alone and Get Out!" don't you get?
I promised God id never have anything to do with you again, and im not about to break that promise", I asked why she would do something like that and she said "Cause! Im done! Get out! Leave!"
So, she's not prone to exaggeration and hyperbole, then?
Despite her repeated requests, you go to her house, you ask her for her phone, you ask her all sorts of questions and you try to touch her repeatedly.
What part of "Leave me Alone and Get Out!" don't you get?
it didn't make any sense to me and I was trying to figure out what was going on. It was a three year relationship and we were engaged, I had questions Posted via Mobile Device
it didn't make any sense to me and I was trying to figure out what was going on. It was a three year relationship and we were engaged, I had questions Posted via Mobile Device
Here's a summary.
She fell out of love with you and in love with someone else.
She fell out of love with you and in love with someone else.
That's about the most you'll ever get out of her.
Let it go, gf and only for 3 years. If you come back in 5 years and say no other girl will ever go out with me at all, then we'll talk.
My 1st gf kicked me to the curb and i stalked her also. Then I realized i could have spent all that energy and passion in getting gf #2, so she could kick me to the curb
Let it go, gf and only for 3 years. If you come back in 5 years and say no other girl will ever go out with me at all, then we'll talk.
My 1st gf kicked me to the curb and i stalked her also. Then I realized i could have spent all that energy and passion in getting gf #2, so she could kick me to the curb
It just wasnt that easy to let go i guess. It has been really hard on me, I didnt eat at all for weeks, couldnt sleep, nightmares, crying, uncontrollable pain etc.
after you have sex, we were both each others first, its hard to understand, it doesnt make any sense, it shouldnt, its not supposed to happen like this. But it does :/
And the whole touching thing? Posted via Mobile Device
I didn't say "don't touch me" exactly. My body language said that. And, pushing me over the edge... no. He said pretty much that to me tho. I pushed him away so he didn't think I would care... that was his excuse. Posted via Mobile Device
One more time. Let it go. Walk away. Your showing signs of true obsession and stalker tendencies.
Walk away before you get yourself onto some serious trouble.
I repeat. Walk The *** Away.
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What are ROS?
She did day she felt like she cheated on me in her heart
It couldn't have anything to do with the guys she went on a date with that she feel in love with and she said she had only been talking to that guy for a week on the phone.
We were also engaged and she would always say stuff like "I want to spend the rest of my life with you" and"if we ever broke up id never Faye again cause I've set my heart on you" Posted via Mobile Device
I am walking away I just wanted to know if she cheated or not. Im still hurt over it all.
She most likely did but you're never going to know. Concentrate your efforts on yourself and not on questions you're never going to get the answers to. Look at it this way.
If you were to find out today that she cheated on you what changes? You're still hurt correct? The relationship is still over correct?
Like a few others have told you. You need to start taking the steps to move on. If you don't the only thing you're going to have to look forward to the back of a police car after you contact her again.
She most likely did but you're never going to know. Concentrate your efforts on yourself and not on questions you're never going to get the answers to. Look at it this way.
If you were to find out today that she cheated on you what changes? You're still hurt correct? The relationship is still over correct?
Like a few others have told you. You need to start taking the steps to move on. If you don't the only thing you're going to have to look forward to the back of a police car after you contact her again.
I can see where he might be able to trace back to moments when he should have been listening more closely. Maybe he could have done something about it, maybe not. But he would be more informed.
Given the wealth of information that I now have of my fiance's EA, I can see just every stepping stone and pivotal moment. My antenna was up but I was also "giving the benefit of the doubt." Now that I know what was playing in the back ground, you can be sure I will not be giving out anymore benefits.
I can see where he might be able to trace back to moments when he should have been listening more closely. Maybe he could have done something about it, maybe not. But he would be more informed.
Given the wealth of information that I now have of my fiance's EA, I can see just every stepping stone and pivotal moment. My antenna was up but I was also "giving the benefit of the doubt." Now that I know what was playing in the back ground, you can be sure I will not be giving out anymore benefits.
Yes, move forward while hopefully learning from the past so that history doesn't repeat itself.
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Let it go, gf and only for 3 years. If you come back in 5 years and say no other girl will ever go out with me at all, then we'll talk.
