She's living with her mother, 2 streets away. She has our daughter with her. The guy she is/was seeing/texting doesn't live in this town. Its 24 degrees out hence the skimpy outfit.
she has been inappropriate, but I don't think anything suspicious is going on currently.
She's an awful liar, and its a small town, eyes everywhere. Posted via Mobile Device
Yeah I've heard of this before, however if she really didn't want a divorce or wanted affection from both sides why would she be so cold? She knows that I will leave her. If she wanted to play me and sleep around surely she would be trying to win my trust and stop being such a *****
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Yeah I've heard of this before, however if she really didn't want a divorce or wanted affection from both sides why would she be so cold? She knows that I will leave her.Perhaps she know´s it now. But before today.She taught she had you in her back pocket.
Ie he is not leaving kinda attitude. If she wanted to play me and sleep around surely she would be trying to win my trust and stop being such a *****
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She knows well OM is a dead end. He's a loser as you told us. She won't give up the ride anyway. She's too addicted to him now, it's what only matter to her NOW, over her children, over her reputation, and of course over you. She's at "I will bother tomarrow" state. That's why I told you to expose her to her family and friends the very moment she get into the car/plane to that travel. She will start getting calls in the middle of the trip. Tell them she chose the persuit to bang this OM over her family after being warned and you had to divorce her. Don't let them rewrite and gaslights. Nad go completely dark on her.
Maybe deep down she doesn't believe you will follow through with the divorce, maybe she believes she can always manipulate you into coming back after banging OM, maybe it's power trip for her anyway, tride thing (Is she that stunborn normaly?), who knows. Better try not to overthink it. She's an addict.
One of your earlier posts resonated with me. I had posted in Betrayed's reconcilliation thread about how I knew I loved my wife back over forty years ago. We had a huge fight and went to our separate homes totally and utterly angry with each other. We remained in no contact for almost a week. During that time I realized that eventhough I was still unhappy I was more unhappy without her. You have indicated just the opposite. Take a true inventory of your feelings for her as your wife and not just as the mother of your child (she'll always be that) and see if your happier in her company or not.
Finally, as I posted earlier, be sure in your mind if not hers that she knows that if she leaves for that weekend away you will divorce her. You know that you will always think, rightly or wrongly, she cheated if she does
Chris you need to tell her family that she is having an affair with Ian, is going with him on this drinking/drugs/sex weekend, and that the cover of going just with her friend is a lie.
Do it now with the explanation that you can't accept being treated like that and you won't be the fool who waits for her at home with your child for her to return from her sex vacation with another man.
Yeah I've heard of this before, however if she really didn't want a divorce or wanted affection from both sides why would she be so cold? She knows that I will leave her. If she wanted to play me and sleep around surely she would be trying to win my trust and stop being such a *****
I don't know what she's holding on to, and frankly right now I don't particularly care.
She's holding onto her "beta-provider": that would be you. It's your function to work and provide for HRH and any spawn she may have while she seeks sexual thrills elsewhere with "higher value" men. She sees you as "low-value" sexually and doesn't think you can get another woman under any circumstances. These are all subliminal, limbic type "feelings" and most likely nothing she has actually pondered consciously. See: MMSL, NMMNG, Roissy.
She told me the next day, and I know what she is like when drunk, she's useless and irresponsible and on occasion drinks way too much.
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Chris, if you read my post "Bad Night", you'll see my wife is this way when drunk as well. My wife recognizes this now after what happened this weekend and has swore not to drink again. Not that I see how far my wife would take it when drunk, there is no way I would let her go on the adults only weekend getaway. If you know your wife is like this, tell her your concerns about going. If she respects you, she'll not go.
Chris, if you read my post "Bad Night", you'll see my wife is this way when drunk as well. My wife recognizes this now after what happened this weekend and has swore not to drink again. Not that I see how far my wife would take it when drunk, there is no way I would let her go on the adults only weekend getaway. If you know your wife is like this, tell her your concerns about going. If she respects you, she'll not go.
He already told her, she said she's still going.
And FB, drunk or sober I think you've only hit the tip of the iceburg in your situation.
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