How to I see my husbands deleted history on iphone?
About us - Late twenties and married 6 years with 2 kids ages 5 and 3.
A little while ago, I caught my husband downloading really creepy porn. The creepy thing is that the girls look young. I know its common (although irritating IMO) for men to idealize high school aged girls but the pictures were of very skinny, flat chested, innocent looking, no make-up girls. Some of the girls looked like they were 10!
I realize my propensity towards overreacting so I asked a couple of guy friends and they agreed that several of the pictures looked legal but several also looked ILLEGAL and creepy.
I confronted him saying if I ever saw anything like this ever again, I would divorce him and report him to the police and tell everyone he knew. He totally minimizes it and rolls his eyes saying I'm over-reacting.
I should mention that I don't care about porn at all.. I've watched it with him, with out him... It doesn't bother me at all. We have different sleeping schedules and I know he beats off before he goes to bed and he watches it on his iphone. Again, this doesn't bother me and he doesn't hide this either. I've walked in on him a few times too.. again no big deal.
Today I had something to tell him before he went to sleep so I walked in on him, said what I needed to say and then I asked to see his phone. He said no and then deleted the history. He said it's embarrassing and that he deserved privacy and I'm like "Ummmm no! You lost your right to privacy when I found what I did and I clearly stated that if you want to be married to me that this is the way it had to be. I don't hide anything from you!"
I'm done worrying about it. I need to know if my husband is a pedofile. Is there a way I can hack into his iphone to record the history or recover deleted history with out him knowing?
What happens if he is?