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Old 08-31-2012, 12:41 AM   #31 (permalink)
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oh yeah and because of personal experience check her pictures on everything. A picture is worth a thousand words.

Google all her screen names form these sites. You may find there is a lot out there under her profile name or the email she used to set the accounts up.
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Old 08-31-2012, 12:46 AM   #32 (permalink)
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not an Iphone, thanks, anyways. LOL Oldwolf, she already knew that I have a pretty good working knowledge of computers, I've fixed hers often enough. I've never shown any real interest in social networking, or online chatting for it's own sake;all my online connections have to do with man stuff. lol so I figure she just never figured I would go looking, or that she would accidentally get busted out and give me a reason to go looking. Ya, she's scared, alright, I'm bring in about 85% of the little money we have. Without me paying the bills, she's seriously screwed.
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Old 08-31-2012, 12:56 AM   #33 (permalink)
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adamn this Facebook stuff is seriously warped. I don't mean sexual stuff,either, these people really play this dumb Farmville game all day?? I'd rather go fishin' geeeezzzz. Hmmmm what's this schoolFeed? better check this out too.

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Old 08-31-2012, 12:57 AM   #34 (permalink)
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thats why the almost stroke.
BUT, with CS and disability, plus alimony she might not be as bad off as you say.
I really think you caught this though, and scared the heck out of her.
By the way, what are your plans if no sex was involved ??
Or just cams and chat. BC right now you already know she was playing, just not how much.
See if you could find out if any om are close enough for a meet with her, while you was working.
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Old 08-31-2012, 12:58 AM   #35 (permalink)
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yeah they serious about that stuff.
I can't throw stone though. I play Frontline Commando on my phone ALL day !!
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Old 08-31-2012, 01:20 AM   #36 (permalink)
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No cam on the PC she has now, the blown up one does..maybe something on the hard drive from that..we'll see.Still digging through the Facebook friend history, thank you,GotMeWondering..one task at a time, Thank the Lord I'm on vacation this week and have the time. She's got 1200 friends here, most women,but more than a few men. OldWolf..if I even think she's taken it physical in any way, it's over. Any kiss, any hug, any petting are direct stepping stones to sex, and with AIDS, she's playing selfish games with my life. Before AIDS, I used to think that you could reconcile after extramarital sex, but now it includes the possibility of a deadly infection with no cure, that changed my mind...I'll be getting tested anyways after I resolve this..who knows how long this has been going on? I sure don't as of yet. Well,I live in SE Wisconsin, the guy I busted her on is in Wisconsin Rapids..150 odd miles. The one I got a name with from the phone is in Chicago..100 miles. I work 10-14 hours a day. Plenty close enough. If no sex, I'm not sure yet. Have to find out all I can first, then decide.

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Old 08-31-2012, 01:28 AM   #37 (permalink)
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She's got 1200 friends here, most women,but more than a few men.
Wow! My wife had only about 80 friends so it was a lot easier for me to process; she now has a couple less than she did before.

An STD test cannot hurt for sure.
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Old 08-31-2012, 01:38 AM   #38 (permalink)
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hmmm this guy's friendship history is taking a longgg time to load ...must be a lot of stuff here. Why am I laughing at some of this? This hurts and it's screwing up my time off
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LOL as long as I have access , maybe I should just unfriend or block everyone I don't know. would take awhile to do, lol also to undo
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or delete the account for her? If we stay together, she'll be doing that anyway hmmmm Nope would destroy the evidence.
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LOL as long as I have access , maybe I should just unfriend or block everyone I don't know. would take awhile to do, lol also to undo
Don't mess with anything for now... you may not want to tip your hand that you have been looking.
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You could be right, GotMe, but my wife's not dumb, she'll figure out I'm doing this pretty quick. Not finding anything on Facebook so far...I'm starting to think that she was just using Tagged and maybe others for whatever she was doing. Keeping everything above board on Facebook itself. When I check that other HD tomorrow, I bet I'll find out more, she was using the busted PC for over a year. Probably free email accounts etc, that I don't know about yet. I'm going to tell her I just tossed out the broken PC.
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When I check that other HD tomorrow, I bet I'll find out more, she was using the busted PC for over a year.
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Old 08-31-2012, 02:08 AM   #44 (permalink)
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Ok, I'm having a bit of translation issue lol, Anybody know what a puzzled heart is on Facebook? These people are weird, maybe I'm just too old to get some of this stuff. Thanks again, GotMe.. I'll try that one too, got about 4 file recovery progs on here, the more the merrier, one might recover something the others won't

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Puzzled heart - guessing probably some game? I don't really know since I am a Facebook newbie.
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