Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Southern california
Re: I'm broken and don't know what to do
I don't know which way, you will end up going---D or R---but you cannot, I repeat cannot---at this point show him any signs of affection, or let him show affection to you
If you do so---it is saying to him, go ahead take other women, in preferance to me and your children, do your dirty little thing, I will be here when you decide to come home, and it is all OK----that is what you are telling him, when you allow him to touch you----that is also telling him, he can do it again, cuz you will be there, and do nothing about what he has done.
KEEP HIM AT ARMS LENGTH---NO LOVEY--DOVEY----NO MRS NICE WOMAN----he cheated, he dissed you, he made you out to be a POS, he must be held accountable---HE DOES NOT GET HIS NICE CUSHY LIFESTYLE BACK------he MUST do penance
If you stay with him, the only way he gets to stay, is if he does ALL the heavy lifting---when you say jump---he says how high---he does not get to argue/disagree/discuss ANYTHING---what you say GOES, as long as its not abusive
Also---MAKE HIM SIGN A POST--NUP, with a DURESS clause.