sillky717

you will get through this just take it one day at a time. the first sign is when you realize you actually smiled without faking for the kids sake. easier said than done but try going one hour a day without thinking about the hurt before you know it you wont even have to try
best of the best for you.

Owen

The part that blows me away with people like your ex husband is how is his new love interest ever going to trust him. Their relationship is based entirely on cheating. He will cheat on her and even if he didnt she will never trust him. He will get his due. What comes around goes around.

believer

Mumofthree - hope you are haning in there & know in your heart that the decision you made was the right one. Hopefully things are getting easier & you are adjusting to you new life.

Someone was mentioning "strikes" - would like some thoughts on my husbands strikes
found out having an affair when I was pregnant with 2nd child but took 2 months to admit the truth.
he was very undecided during that time if he should stay or go. He got the other woman pregnant after he decided to "stay" & work on us.
I didn't find the pregnancy part out until my daughter was 2 months. (2/06)
Found out 1/5 years later (8/07)of a sexual encounter between the him & the other woman around from (2/06).
Since the 2/06 things have seemed to be improving but when I found out in 8/06 - I was very upset & started seriously thinking divorce/seperation. We are curerntly seperated until I can decide what I want to do.
I left out many details but that's my situation in a nutshell - Any comments . . .
Does he deserve another "chance"?