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Old 10-08-2012, 01:23 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I been Marriage for 15 year and we have four kids.My wife had an affair and told me that she went to this guy house,but nothing happen.We made love before she confession it to me.Now our Marriage is it trouble,My wife tells me she love me and the kids.Sometime i don't believe her,she said she don't know why she did it,but every cause has a reason.She spend most of her time at her mom house.I have to bagged for sex some time.She states that she tried sometime.Which I find it hard to believe.I believe she want's to end our marriage because she try to argue about every little thing I do or say.

please help me out.
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Old 10-08-2012, 01:25 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Get marriage counseling.

I dont believe that "nothing" happened at OM house.

You know how truthful is your wife to you.
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Old 10-08-2012, 01:40 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Thank for the reply.

Well we had an fallout today,she think am cheating because I went to work today.She told me she wish something would of happen with the other guy.It really hurt me inside.If only I could know what she is thinking something.
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Old 10-08-2012, 01:42 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Thank for the reply.

Well we had an fallout today,she think am cheating because I went to work today.She told me she wish something would of happen with the other guy.It really hurt me inside.If only I could know what she is thinking something.
Try not to get to angry over that statement.It is typical for people
that cheats/cheating.

Can you tell more of your story?
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Do you believe nothing happened?
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Old 10-08-2012, 01:50 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Well today is my day off work,but am missing hour so I decided to go to work to make it up.I ask her to drive me to work and that's when the problem occur.I didn't know it would be a problem between us.She think I love my job more than her,but I don't.It's hard to talk her about our problem.I don't know if she still love me,because her give me dirty look at times. Sometime we go for days with out talking to one other.

How can I show her I love her?

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I don't know,it happen two years ago.when she told me she was crying.This guy was marriage and I ask her who was this guy she wont tell me.Why want she tell me his name.I ask my self is she still seeing him or not.

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Hi dford,I'm not understanding how your wife confessed to an affair,but then told you nothing happened.Is it that she was involved emotionally,but not physically? Who is this man and when did it happen? Are you completely separated now? Does your wife work? Were you suspicious of her for some reason? What led up to her telling you this? The more information you provide the clearer the situation becomes to the posters who would like to help.
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I don't know,it happen two years ago.when she told me she was crying.This guy was marriage and I ask her who was this guy she wont tell me.Why want she tell me his name.I ask my self is she still seeing him or not.
Im sorry ,but now im a little bit confused.

She wont tell because there hasent been any consequences for it yet.if she is still seeing him? Perhaps,hard to tell. When did you exactly find out about this?
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ok we are still together,but unhappy at the moment.She dose not work at moment,but when she was cheating she was working at that time.She meet him at work she told me she call him and he came and pick her up and took her to his house.Nothing happen because his wife came home an ask what are you doing in my house.I sometime get the feeling she was cheating on me,I ask her about it and she get's very upset.

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she told me the next morning after we had sex and she was crying.
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she told me the next morning after we had sex and she was crying.
Its difficult to make sense of your story.You keep giving very little info.So suggest that you take some time and write it down from the start up till to day. Use word,and then just copy and paste it in


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Im sorry ,but now im a little bit confused.

She wont tell because there hasent been any consequences for it yet.if she is still seeing him? Perhaps,hard to tell. When did you exactly find out about this?

What do you mean?Can you explain it to me.
I just ask her now after two years and she told me his name.

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Its difficult to make sense of your story.You keep giving very little info.So suggest that you take some time and write it down from the start up till to day. Use word,and then just copy and paste it in


You will get far better answer and advice that way
Ok,am stress out with work & my family
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What do you mean?Can you explain it to me.
I just ask her now after two and she told me his name.
Well what i meant was.You two never seem to have resolved anything.You two sweept rugged it.You never gave her the impression that she could have lost you then..

In other words ,nothing changed for your wife.Hence she never feelt the need to tell you anything. And that is probobly whay you are here today...It has understandaby botherd you all this time.


So again would you mind to give some more info about this situation?
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