My Husband never hid his work laptop from me, emails were there at the touch of a button.....his mobile was always out, unlocked, we never had FB....and he still cheated on me with 3 ONS.
So it means nothing if they leave everything lying around really, and it wasn't that he deleted stuff either....I just trusted him and it never crossed my mind to look. FOOL
I tell my younger sister now, trust your H but verify
what he says. She still in the lovely dreamy state of 'he would never do that to me' But we all know he might!
If my H was so precious about his phone alarm bells would have been ringing loudly....you have a seed sown now, its going to grow so you need to know one way or another if he is cheating on you. Unless, of course you're not that bothered?
I always trusted my H 100%, probably because he never went any where without me, only work, he never went out with friends unless I was there, and he never spent money I didn't know about....but one day after hearing something about 'all men will cheat given the opportunity' i picked up his phone and there, bingo the first message to a female colleague was quite inappropriate flirting! Even the flirting shocked me as it seemed so out of character for him.
This lead me to snoop further and i found loads of inappropriate pictures and e-mails that had been sent to and from his colleagues. Finally I found an email from years before.....I played the long game in finding my evidence....and when I did, its fair to say, the $h1t hit the fan.
You have to check his phone! if I'd have checked my H emails or phone years before I could have nipped something in the bud before it got started!....and he'd been looking at loads of porn when in work too
so do yourself a favor!