Re: Emotionally "attached" to another man.
"I'm just honestly not sure what to do. I know its wrong." These two statements don't agree. If you know it's wrong, you know what to do. Right now, you imagine life as a choice between two scenarios, life with husband or life with this new guy. There is a third (very real) possibility. That's being caught in an affair and abandoned by both, maybe losing custody of your kids or keeping the kids but losing 70% of your financial support. The world is full of struggling divorced mom's with kids. It's really easy for a guy to flirt with a woman. How anxious is this guy going to be to leave his wife, lose his kids, at least half of what he owns, damage his reputation, to trade-in for you and your kids? The man you have isn't perfect but he's YOUR man. Even if you had a written guarantee, would you really want a husband who runs around behind your back, flirting with other women? I'm sure he has the same reservations about you.