Re: Just confonted her-she wants ME to move out!
You know Doc, I had a buddy whose wife was very lost in the Affair fog that your wife is currently in.
She had left him and his 2 young daughters (both under 8) multiple times for POSOM.
She quit her job and stayed home as part of heir R. He still had a terrible feeling n his gut.
I told him to check his phone bills. She stopped using the cell but was using the ip phone in the home to talk to the POSOM.
He was pretty upset but was afraid to pull any triggers.
I told him to hide a VAR in the kitchen and bedroom.
In a few days he knew enough to know his R was false, his wife was making plans to permanently run off into the sunset with DBag.
But he also realized his girls were being ignored by their mother.
He filed and D'd her in less than 90 days. He owned the house so she had to leave.
So protect yourself and document everything. There will come a time when you will have to truly expose your wife to family and mutual friends so they understand the level of deceit you dealt with.
The hell with her needs, emotions, feelings or now crappy reputation.